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Finding Your Unique Artist Voice

I remember the early days of my art career, grappling with the notion of creating something uniquely mine. What exactly is an artistic voice? It felt like deciphering an ancient code. You might relate – the struggle to break free from the labels of abstract, figurative, or surreal. I mistakenly believed I had to intentionally craft something entirely novel to claim my artistic voice.

But here’s the revelation: Your voice isn’t just about style or technique. It’s about what you want to achieve, how you perceive the world, and the techniques you grow to love over time. It’s a journey of self-discovery and exploration.

Experimentation became my guide, leading me to new techniques and mediums. The challenge was real – everyone advising to specialize in one thing. Yet, my heart urged me to work with different mediums. It was about discovering what resonated with me, even if it meant going against conventional wisdom.

Finding Your Unique Artist Voice Is A Journey

Artists, including the greats, traverse various styles before finding their true calling. It’s a process of self-reflection and experimentation, a journey into authenticity that takes time and perseverance. Embrace the suck, push through the mistakes, and keep putting your creations out there.

External influences, societal expectations, and trends can be daunting. It’s easy to feel overshadowed by what’s popular. But remember, your authenticity is your strength. Don’t let market demands dictate your work. What feels new and innovative to you may not gain instant recognition, and that’s okay. Consistency and persistence will carve out your unique space.

Then comes the fear of judgment – a universal hurdle. The moment you start expressing your true self, judgment creeps in. Fear of criticism can lead you to conform and play it safe. But here’s the truth – standing out is liberating. Embrace the fear, push past it, and revel in your unique style.

Finding Your Unique Artist Voice Is A Journey

Artistic evolution is inevitable. As you grow, your skills and perspectives evolve. Don’t be confined by the notion that you reach a pinnacle and stay there forever. Embrace the fluidity of your journey, allowing your voice to evolve with you.

Finding your artistic voice is finding confidence in creating what resonates with you. It’s about being real and authentic, creating work that is deeply meaningful to you and potentially connects with others who share your essence.

So, experiment, embrace what you love, and focus on your authenticity. Your voice is the unique melody within you, waiting to be heard. Share it with the world, fearlessly. Remember, you’re amazing, keep creating, and I’ll catch you next week. Adios!

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Letting Go of the Glitches: A Rogue’s Reflection on Simplifying Life

Today, we embark on a journey through the intricacies of managing a self-run membership site versus the streamlined simplicity of Patreon.

A year ago, we bid farewell to Patreon in pursuit of greater control and customization for our members on our dedicated website, theroguecommunity.com. The decision seemed like the right move, given our desire to offer a plethora of exclusive content and interactions. Little did we anticipate the challenges that lay ahead.

Our artistic haven, the Rogue community, thrives on live podcasts, private streams, workshops, art challenges, exclusive videos, and more. We’ve created a vibrant space for artists to connect and grow. However, as we delved into the intricacies of managing our own site, we discovered a hidden labyrinth of technical glitches, especially with the WordPress framework and various plugins required to deliver the best membership options.

The past year became a testament to the delicate balance between managing a thriving online community and nurturing one’s artistic soul. The website, while a hub of creativity, also became a source of unexpected challenges. Every week, a new glitch emerged, demanding my attention and diverting my focus from the art studio.

As an artist, my yearly goal is to create at least 150 new works of art, a lofty ambition that drives my passion for creation. However, the demands of troubleshooting website issues left little room for artistic endeavors. Despite the behind-the-scenes chaos, the members remained blissfully unaware, shielded from the technical storms I wrestled with.

The stark realization hit me hard – in the pursuit of providing more for our community, I inadvertently sacrificed my personal artistic goals. The very essence of being an artist involves immersion in the creative process, yet I found myself entangled in the complexities of maintaining a membership website.

Last year’s goal was to simplify, a mantra that echoed through our endeavors. We streamlined processes, eliminated unnecessary complexities, and aimed for a more straightforward approach. However, the website posed a significant challenge, introducing unforeseen technical complexities that disrupted the delicate balance we sought.

The toll on my artistic output was profound. The studio, my sanctuary, became a neglected haven, visited sporadically amid the chaos of fixing glitches and ensuring the website’s seamless operation. Art, the lifeblood of my existence, took a backseat to the demands of managing a self-run platform.

The financial repercussions were undeniable. While the membership site contributed to our income, the artistic side, our primary source of revenue, suffered a decline. It became apparent that the pursuit of a self-run membership site had unintended consequences on both my artistic fulfillment and our financial stability.

As the year drew to a close, a profound reevaluation became imperative. Simplify had been our guiding principle, yet the reality begged for a more drastic shift. The decision to let go of the self-run membership site, despite the fears and uncertainties it brought, became a pivotal moment in reclaiming artistic autonomy.

The fear of returning to Patreon with a metaphorical “tail between our legs” clashed with the realization that holding onto a project that no longer served its purpose was detrimental. The members, our cherished rogues, remained at the forefront of our considerations. However, it was evident that a significant change was needed to restore the delicate balance between community management and artistic creation.

The decision to let go was not merely a surrender; it was a reclaiming of artistic agency. The emotional turmoil – fear, financial concerns, and a tinge of regret – were overshadowed by the need for a renewed focus on art.

This podcast episode serves as an open narrative, offering a glimpse into the struggles and realizations of the past year. It’s a testament to the artist’s journey, the constant negotiation between creative passion and external demands.

As we step into 2024, the mantra shifts to “simplify.” Yet, this year’s simplicity transcends the mere elimination of unnecessary complexities. It delves deeper into the notion of shedding projects that no longer serve our artistic essence.

The lesson is clear – life is short, and time is a precious currency. Focus on the things you love, and let go of the burdens that hinder your creative journey. In sharing this personal odyssey, I hope it resonates with fellow artists facing similar struggles.

Adios, wonderful rogues! May your 2024 be a year of simplicity, focus on magic, love, and everything that brings you joy. Life’s canvas awaits, and it’s time to paint with unabated passion.

Have an amazing, art-filled week, and I look forward to our next rendezvous. Until then, stay inspired!

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Why Do I Put Off Creative Projects?

I’ve got a burning topic that’s been tickling my brain all week, and it’s about the sneaky ways we convince ourselves that we’re not procrastinating when we totally are. You know, the art of self-trickery.

I Need More Research.

So, picture this: you’ve got this brilliant project or art career you’re dying to dive into, but somehow, you find yourself tangled in the infamous research loop. You’re convinced you need to know more, and before you know it, you’re knee-deep in a vortex of information, with no end in sight. Research is essential, but there’s a fine line between knowing enough and drowning in the sea of Google tabs.

I Need More Time.

And let’s not forget the classic “I need more time” excuse. We’ve all been there, swearing up and down that the day only has 24 hours, conveniently forgetting that Beyoncé also has the same 24 hours. Time is a sneaky thing. The longer you put off your masterpiece, the more time magically disappears, or so we tell ourselves.

I Need To Be Told It’s OK To Do This.

Now, here’s a gem: waiting for permission. Newsflash, you don’t need a golden ticket from Willy Wonka to start creating. Don’t sit around twiddling your thumbs, hoping for someone to discover you. Be your own art superhero and put yourself out there. It’s like jumping into the deep end of a pool – it’s scary, but it’s where the magic happens.

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I Should Be Doing Something Important.

And here’s a personal favorite of mine – the “it’s irresponsible” excuse. Sometimes, your brain tells you that pursuing your passion is reckless, especially if it doesn’t come with a fat paycheck. But guess what? Responsibility is overrated. Dive into those passion projects, even if they’re not swimming in dollar bills. The reward is in the process, not just the outcome.

I Need More Money.

Ah, the money excuse. “I’ll start when I have more money.” Been there, done that, bought the T-shirt. Spoiler alert: you’ll never feel like you have enough money. Embrace the chaos, start with what you have, and watch the magic unfold.

I Have Kids.

Now, kids and responsibilities – a legitimate concern. But hey, you can be an artist and a responsible adult simultaneously. Show your kids the beauty of pursuing your dreams, and don’t be the parent who only preaches. Be the parent who paints the picture of a life well-lived.

I Need The Right Logo.

And don’t get me started on the “I don’t have the right space or logo” nonsense. Your creative journey doesn’t hinge on having the perfect setup. Picasso didn’t wait for the stars to align, and neither should you. Use what you have, where you are, and let the creativity flow.

Don’t Put Off Projects Just Relax And Have Fun

In conclusion, just get started. Break free from the chains of procrastination, even if it’s just baby steps. Embrace the suck, because everything you do will suck until it doesn’t. Happy holidays, you incredible beings. ! adore you all, and will catch you on the flip side! Adios!

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Finishing Your Art Projects

Welcome to this week’s expedition into the realm of finishing art projects. Today, Klee and I embarked on a podcast adventure, exploring the depths of creativity, struggles, and the elusive art of completing our art projects. Now, gather ’round, as I unravel the tapestry of our conversation.

The Uncharted Terrain of Project Completion:

We delved into the seemingly straightforward concept of finishing art projects. What does it truly mean to complete a project? Well, according to Klee, it’s as simple as finishing your art projects. A good answer, indeed, and yet, the journey unfolds with more complexity than meets the eye. The act of completing is sometimes an act of will. Also, give yourself more time, just because you put something on a shelf, doesn’t mean you are never going to finish it.

The Balancing Act of Creative Multiplicity:

As creatives, we often find ourselves juggling an array of projects—sound, books, videos, paintings, and jewelry. The challenge, Klee and I noted, lies in striking a balance amid this myriad of creative pursuits. The intricate dance between various mediums requires focus, intention, and, most importantly, the art of finishing what we start.

Single-Tasking Greatness:

In the midst of our creative chaos, we echoed the sentiment that multitasking is but an illusion. The key to unlocking greatness lies in single-tasking—pouring our undivided attention into one project at a time. The revelation? Focus is the secret sauce to letting our creative mojo thrive.

Navigating the Post-Holiday Lull:

Post-holiday periods often bring a paradox of challenges. While busy times demand strategic thinking, the lull can tempt us into the abyss of indecision. Klee shared her struggles during these quieter times and the importance of deliberate downtime—conscious choices to recalibrate rather than getting lost in the void of “I don’t know what to do today.”

“Fa Chunking” and Embracing Strategic Focus:

Fiona introduced the concept of “fa chunking,” a brilliant strategy to break projects into manageable 5-minute increments. Whether pushing through or hitting pause, this technique allows for intentional and strategic progress. Klee highlighted the value of strategic focus, ensuring that our creative endeavors align with our current priorities.

As we wrapped up this artistic odyssey, one thing became abundantly clear—finishing art projects is not just about the final brushstroke or concluding note. It’s a journey of self-discovery, intentional choices, and the delicate dance of balancing our creative pursuits.

So, whether you’re navigating the chaos of creativity or embracing the calm after the storm, remember to find your rhythm. Clear the cache, chunk your time, and, above all, relish in the joy of creating. May your creative week be filled with magic, wonder, and the completion of inspiring projects.

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Weird Questions People Ask Artists

Today, we’re diving into the quirky world of questions artists get bombarded with. I mean, let’s face it, people who don’t do art see us as these magical unicorns who conjure art out of thin air, and sometimes the questions we get are just as fantastical. So, grab your sketchbook, and let’s tackle some of the wild queries together.

How long did it take you to make that?

First up on the list: “How long did it take you to make that?” Ah, the timeless classic. My go-to response? “About 40 years.” Because, you know, I’ve been at this art game since the crayon days, and it took a bit of time to fine-tune this masterpiece. It’s not just about the one piece; it’s a lifetime of artistic evolution!

Can you draw me for free?

Now, here’s a gem: “Can you draw me for free?” Short answer: No. I mean, come on, even unicorns need to pay the bills. If I drew everyone for free, I’d be living in a cardboard box, not a magical art studio.

Remember To Be Weird And Have Fun

What does this mean?

Then there’s the deep philosophical inquiry: “What does this mean?” when pointing at a piece. My tactic? Flip the question back at them – “What do you see?” It’s like inception, but with art, and it opens up a conversation instead of leaving them stranded in the depths of artistic interpretation.

Why don’t you get a real job?

Ah, the classic “Why don’t you get a real job?” To that, I simply say, “Because real jobs are overrated.” I mean, who needs a nine-to-five when you can have a canvas and colors as your companions?

Can you teach me to draw in a day?

The golden question, “Can you teach me to draw in a day?” My answer is a masterpiece in itself. “I could teach you to draw a stickman right now.” But, of course, I sneak in a little truth – becoming an artist takes time, dedication, and more than a day.

Remember To Be Weird And Have Fun

Why is it so expensive?

Now, the wallet-wincing question: “Why is it so expensive?” My response? “My art is not for everyone.” Boom. It’s not about the price; it’s about the value, and my art is like a rare gem, not your run-of-the-mill trinket.

How much money do you make?

And then we have the grand finale: “How much money do you make?” Seriously? It’s like asking a magician to reveal their secrets. My go-to? “It’s not consistent, but it’s a magical rollercoaster of creativity and financial surprises.”

When faced with these quirky questions, remember to have fun with it. Practice your responses in the mirror, turn those awkward moments into a chance to showcase your wit, and, most importantly, keep having an amazing, awesome, and creatively wild week. Adios!

Oh, before I go, here is a shameless plug:

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Overcoming Obstacles As An Artist

Welcome to the chaotic rollercoaster that is my life in the art studio. Seriously, it’s been like juggling flaming swords while trying to chew gum and create art—yeah, that kind of crazy!

My daughter just joined the circus—uh, I mean, moved in. Adjusting to the new family dynamic is a whole wild ride, albeit a wonderful one. But hey, in the midst of this chaos, I thought, why not sit down and have a little art party with you guys? Because who doesn’t love a good art party?

Now, let’s talk about overcoming obstacles. I am in the midst of dealing with some and I wanted to share my insight on how I deal with them. Let’s get right into it.

I KEEP A POSITIVE MINDSET.

I know, I know, positive mindset sounds like something you’d find on a unicorn’s wishlist, but bear with me. Picture this: you’re spiraling down into the abyss of a problem, and all you see are roadblocks. That’s when you need to whip out the positivity like it’s confetti at a celebration. Shift your focus from the problem to the things that you can control. It’s like a magic trick, but better.

And positive vibes don’t mean slapping a happy face sticker on everything. Oh no, we’re diving into the deep end of emotions, facing them head-on. It’s like emotional weightlifting—acknowledge, don’t bury.

Overcome Obstacles By Remembering Your Power

I BLAME NO ONE.

Blame game, anyone? Nope, we’re not playing. Blaming others is like handing over your superhero cape; you lose your personal power. So, be an astronaut with a ballpoint pen—get creative, find solutions, and for the love of art, just do your thing.

I FA-CHUNKING DO IT.

Now, let’s talk strategy. Ever heard of fa-chunking? It’s not a new dance move; it’s a game-changer. Break down your tasks into bite-sized chunks, and chip away at that obstacle like a ninja sculptor in 5, 15, or 50 minutes. Chip away at the obstacle gradually. It’s all about avoiding burnout and staying on the path without overwhelming yourself. And if one day you’re not feeling it, well, give yourself permission to Netflix and chill. Pick it up tomorrow; it’s not going anywhere.

Distractions, distractions. We’re all guilty of trying to be multitasking wizards, thinking about everything at once. Spoiler alert: it’s a procrastination party. Stay focused, stay the course, and save the mental breakdowns for your one-person fa-chunking dance-off in the studio.

I STAY ADAPTABLE.

Adaptability is the name of the game. Life’s not black and white; it’s a freaking rainbow. Be crazy, be unpredictable, change things up. It’s like being a mad scientist, but without the explosions (hopefully).

Overcome Obstacles By Remembering Your Power

I ALLOW MYSELF TO HAVE A TANTRUM.

Tantrums, because why not? We all have them, and it’s perfectly okay. Release those emotions in your own way, just avoid causing chaos by directing it at anyone else. It’s not about them, it’s about you. It’s like a solo rock concert in your living room—let it out, and then move on.

I STAY RESOURCEFUL.

Resourcefulness time. It’s okay not to have all the answers. Reach out, face your fears, ask for help. But seriously, skip asking Steve and Uncle Charles. They don’t get it. Seek advice from the cool cats who understand your artistic journey.

PERSIST THROUGH THE BULLSHIT

Last but not least, let’s talk persistence and determination. Focus on what you can control, not just the big, scary end goal. Grit is your secret weapon. Even a smidge of grit can turn that turd into a shiny ball of success. And yes, I still don’t know how to feel about sanding a turd, but it’s a party in the analogy department.

And there you have it! These are the mindsets I keep in mind when I have an obstacle in my way! You can watch the video where I discuss this and get some more insight.

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MY CALENDAR IS STILL AVAILABLE (40 Left)

Big shoutout to everyone who snagged a calendar! We’ve got 40 left, and the pre-orders are still going strong until December 1st. 

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Alright, it’s time for me to put on my creative superhero cape and dive back into the art abyss. Adios, you amazing artists! Remember, keep creating, keep partying, and most importantly, keep being fabulous!

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Navigating the Silence in the Era of Social Media

Today, I’ve been thinking about something that probably resonates with many of you: the deafening silence an artist faces when their creations seemingly vanish into the void of social media. It’s like throwing a party and no one showing up. It sucks, doesn’t it?

This morning, my thoughts wandered to that familiar feeling of being ignored as an artist. You pour your heart and soul into your work, excitedly share it on platforms, and… nothing. No likes, no comments, just a cavernous silence. It’s a peculiar kind of pain, isn’t it? It’s almost as if silence speaks louder than words, whispering doubts and uncertainties into our minds.

Many will tell you to develop a thick skin, to be impervious to this silence, but I beg to differ. Having a thick skin feels like constructing barriers around yourself, isolating your vulnerability. But the truth is, vulnerability is at the core of artistry. When you put your work out there, you’re baring your soul. So, it’s no wonder that the lack of response hurts so deeply.

Just Be Yourself

It’s intriguing how our brains craft stories around this silence, weaving narratives that tell us we’re not good enough, that our art is unworthy. And the quest for validation often fuels this inner turmoil. We find ourselves seeking recognition, craving acknowledgment for our creative endeavors.

Social media, while a great platform for sharing, can be a double-edged sword. It’s a breeding ground for comparison, where follower count equates to success or failure. But here’s the reality: the number of followers doesn’t define your worth as an artist. Whether you have 100 or 10,000 followers, it doesn’t diminish the value of your art.

I’ve experienced the allure of chasing the algorithm, attempting to garner more attention. But the more you obsess over this, the more it distances you from the real purpose—sharing your art for the joy of creation, not for external validation.

My approach has been simple: I share because I want to. I post what excites me, not for the response it might generate. It’s about creating a personal record, a digital journal of my artistic journey. This approach might not yield immediate results, but it’s authentic and true to my creative essence.

Just Be Yourself

For those struggling with this silence, my advice is this: reframe the narrative. Instead of giving power to platforms and seeking external validation, focus on making the act of sharing enjoyable for yourself. Don’t let the platforms dictate your art. Create for you, not for metrics or validation from others.

Embrace the fact that being ignored is part of the artist’s journey. Your art is an expression of your unique voice, and it deserves to be heard, even if the audience is silent. Be a thorn in the side of silence, persistently sharing your work, refusing to be deterred by the lack of immediate recognition.

Remember, your value as an artist isn’t measured by external metrics. Keep creating, keep sharing, and most importantly, do it for yourself. You are truly awesome, regardless of likes or follower counts. Don’t let anything stop you from expressing your creativity.

Well, that’s it for today! Remember, I absolutely adore each and every one of you. Until next time, keep being the wonderful, resilient artists you are. Catch you later!

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Promoting Your Art Can Be Fun

Hey there, you amazing artists! Today, I want to dive into the wonderful world of promoting your art. It’s a topic that often leaves many of us artists scratching our heads. We may excel at crafting beautiful pieces of art, but when it comes to the business side of things, we tend to scurry in the opposite direction faster than a cat who just saw its own reflection. But fear not! Today, I’m here to tell you that promoting your art can be as fun as wielding a paintbrush or strumming a guitar. So let’s explore how to turn this business aspect into a creative adventure that’s not just enjoyable but also highly successful.

Embrace Your Unique Voice

First and foremost, embrace your creativity. Your art is an extension of yourself, a reflection of your inner world. Instead of viewing self-promotion as a daunting task, consider it an opportunity to express your individuality and share your perspective with the world. Tell yourself, “I have a voice, and this is how I choose to use it.” For me, this aspect is incredibly motivating. I used to be a quiet and shy kid, and now, my art, this podcast, everything I create—it’s me finding my voice and speaking up. Be authentic; let your passion shine through in everything you do. When your art is a genuine reflection of who you are, self-promotion becomes a natural extension of your creative expression.

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Set Artistic Goals

When it comes to promoting your art, set creative goals rather than focusing solely on sales and financial gain. Money can be a tricky motivator. For instance, I use social media as a platform to express myself, document my creative journey, and connect with like-minded individuals. It’s not about the money. This approach keeps me prolific in promoting myself because I’m not constantly worrying about follower counts or likes. If your goal is rooted in financial validation or fame, it’s likely not sustainable. My goal, for example, is to create visually stunning content that captivates and engages. It’s about the art, not just the dollars.

Collaborate and Connect

As artists, we often spend a lot of time in solitude, deep in our creative process. Instead of seeing self-promotion as a chore, view it as an opportunity to connect with like-minded individuals. Attend art exhibitions, join online communities, and engage with other creatives. These connections not only boost your promotion efforts but also make the entire experience much more enjoyable. Think of it as connecting with kindred spirits rather than “self-promotion.”

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Experiment and Innovate

Creatives thrive on experimentation and innovation, so why not apply that approach to the business side of things? Try out different ways to market yourself, explore new platforms, and think outside the box. The thrill of discovering what works and what doesn’t can become the end goal in itself. I see all my marketing efforts as social experiments, a fascination with human behavior. It transforms promotion into an exciting creative process rather than a money-driven one.

Keep It Real

Share your own hero’s journey, with all its ups and downs. Don’t be shy about sharing your story just because you’re living it. Your journey is epic and inspiring, showcasing your resilience and creativity. By engaging people emotionally through storytelling, you make the business side of creativity enjoyable for both you and your audience.

Seek Guidance and Support

Don’t be afraid to seek out people who have been where you are now. Connect with artists who’ve walked the same path, and build a network of support. It’s not a sign of weakness but a testament to your willingness to grow and improve.

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Reward Yourself

Make the process fun by gamifying the business side of your art. Set personal milestones and reward yourself when you achieve them. Treat yourself to art supplies, a creative workshop, or a day of relaxation. Turn self-promotion into a series of mini-adventures, each step a rewarding journey of its own.

Being a creative doesn’t mean you have to dread promoting your art. By injecting creativity into self-promotion, embracing your unique voice, setting creative goals, collaborating, experimenting, storytelling, seeking support, and rewarding yourself, you can transform self-promotion into an enjoyable and fulfilling part of your artistic journey.

So, don’t let fear hold you back. Turn self-promotion into an exciting chapter in your creative journey. Step out of your comfort zone, wield your metaphorical sword, and face those dragons with a gleeful smile. Thank you for joining me today. You’re all amazing, and I look forward to our next creative rendezvous. Stay inspired, and adios! 🎨✨

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The Art of Procrastination

Today, we will discuss a topic that’s the bane of many creatives: procrastination. It’s a word that often carries a negative connotation, but here’s the truth – procrastinating is an essential part of the creative process.

I’ve had countless people approach me over the years, expressing guilt and frustration because they haven’t created art recently. Sometimes it’s just a week, sometimes it turns into a month, and, in some cases, even years go by without picking up a paintbrush or sculpting tool. This sense of unproductivity can be disheartening, but it’s essential to understand that it’s okay to take a break from your creative endeavors.

It’s OK To Take A Break

Life happens, and there are moments when you need to step away from your art to deal with personal matters, work, or other responsibilities. The key to maintaining a positive relationship with your creativity is understanding that it’s perfectly okay to set your artwork aside for a while.

Now, I’m a firm believer in creating something daily, even if it’s just a small sketch or a moment spent pondering creative ideas. However, it’s vital to remember that you don’t have to be constantly painting, sculpting, or creating elaborate masterpieces. The real enemy here isn’t the absence of art in your life; it’s the way you talk to yourself when you’re not creating.

In a world dominated by the hustle culture, where we’re constantly told to work, work, and work some more, it’s easy to fall into the trap of feeling like you must always be creating. But the truth is, this mentality isn’t sustainable. It’s crucial to recognize that you have the power to decide when and how you engage with your art.

It’s OK To Take A Break

If you find yourself in a procrastination phase, don’t berate yourself. Give yourself permission to take a day off, a week off, or even longer if you need it. It’s okay to step back, take a walk, read a book, binge-watch Netflix, or simply do anything that helps you recharge. Sometimes, life throws challenges at us, and it’s crucial to prioritize self-care and healing.

I often find that people seek validation or permission to take a break from their art, but the truth is, you don’t need anyone’s approval. You are the master of your artistic journey. You decide when it’s time to create or take a step back.

You set your boundaries, and you get to choose what’s best for you at any given moment. Whether you want to dive headfirst into your studio, take a step back, or simply want to be left alone – it’s all okay.

It’s OK To Take A Break

If you’re struggling to reignite your creative spark, try “Fa-Chunking.” Start with a small commitment, maybe just five minutes of working on your art. If you don’t feel it after those five minutes, give yourself permission to step away. You can always try again tomorrow or whenever it feels right.

So, let’s reframe how we think about procrastination. It’s not a dirty word. It’s a natural part of the creative process. And it’s vital to remember that you can’t and shouldn’t be “on” all the time. Embrace your creative breaks, acknowledge your priorities, and know that your creativity will always be there, waiting for your return.

You are the artist, the creator, and the curator of your own creative journey. So, go ahead and procrastinate when you need to, and remember, it’s all part of the process.

Stay creative, even when it means not stepping into the studio. Embrace your creativity on your own terms, and go out there and be your amazing self. You have my complete and utter permission to do just that. Adios! Until next week!

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Don’t Wait for Validation

Today, I want to have a heart-to-heart with you about something I believe is crucial for anyone embarking on an artistic journey or seeking to elevate their existing career. It’s the pervasive notion that we must wait around for validation, and I’m here to tell you why that’s not only unnecessary but also counterproductive.

Let me share a personal experience that might resonate with some of you. A few years into my art career, I was making a living from my craft alongside my wife Klee. We weren’t exactly raking in millions, but we were paying the bills and pursuing our passion. Then, out of the blue, a gallery approached me. It seemed like an opportunity to validate myself as an artist, a chance to be taken seriously.

The funny thing is, I had already been an artist for three years, showcasing my work and building a collector base. Yet, there was this lingering belief that being in a gallery would somehow validate me further. So, I joined the gallery, thinking it would be a great learning experience.

However, after six months in that environment, I realized it wasn’t what I had expected. Instead of enriching my creative journey, it felt corporate and drained my time. Meetings, gallery requirements, and an unpleasant encounter with an arrogant fellow artist made me question my decision. It was like I had gone full circle, entering the corporate world I had initially sought to escape.

My breaking point came when I stood up to that arrogant artist, who believed in the corporate hierarchy. I realized I didn’t need to be arguing with such individuals. I had a business to run, YouTube videos to make, and art to create. Leaving that gallery turned out to be the best decision I ever made.

Don’t Wait Around For Validation As An Artist

Now, my intention isn’t to demonize galleries, as I’ve had positive experiences with them too. Instead, I want to emphasize the danger of seeking validation from external sources. It’s a pattern that extends beyond galleries, permeating many aspects of our lives.

In our society, we often find ourselves waiting to be chosen, validated, or approved by others. When you apply for a job, you’re jumping through hoops to prove your worthiness, hoping someone will pick you. Similarly, in the art world, we crave validation from galleries, awards, or representation, as if those are the only markers of success.

But here’s the truth: you have tremendous creative power, and you don’t need anyone’s validation. You don’t have to beg anyone to notice you, to say, “Hey, look at me, I’m an artist, validate me!” You are an artist because you create art, because it’s who you are, and it’s up to you to embrace that identity.

Question the status quo, challenge your own insecurities, and trust yourself to move forward. You might encounter people who discourage you or suggest that you can’t just do something without external validation. Ignore the naysayers, because they don’t define your path.

Your art career is an ever-evolving journey, and you are the ultimate authority on your life and your artwork. Trust yourself, but also question your motives. Are you doing this for fame, validation, or to be taken seriously? If so, you might be on the wrong track.

So, let’s break free from this cycle of seeking validation and choose to be the artists we are. Don’t wait for someone else to put that title on you. Embrace your creative power, trust yourself, and ignore the doubters. Remember, you have the ability to shape your artistic destiny.

I hope you found these thoughts food for contemplation. I appreciate each and every one of you. Until next week, adios!