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Finding Your Unique Artist Voice

I remember the early days of my art career, grappling with the notion of creating something uniquely mine. What exactly is an artistic voice? It felt like deciphering an ancient code. You might relate – the struggle to break free from the labels of abstract, figurative, or surreal. I mistakenly believed I had to intentionally craft something entirely novel to claim my artistic voice.

But here’s the revelation: Your voice isn’t just about style or technique. It’s about what you want to achieve, how you perceive the world, and the techniques you grow to love over time. It’s a journey of self-discovery and exploration.

Experimentation became my guide, leading me to new techniques and mediums. The challenge was real – everyone advising to specialize in one thing. Yet, my heart urged me to work with different mediums. It was about discovering what resonated with me, even if it meant going against conventional wisdom.

Finding Your Unique Artist Voice Is A Journey

Artists, including the greats, traverse various styles before finding their true calling. It’s a process of self-reflection and experimentation, a journey into authenticity that takes time and perseverance. Embrace the suck, push through the mistakes, and keep putting your creations out there.

External influences, societal expectations, and trends can be daunting. It’s easy to feel overshadowed by what’s popular. But remember, your authenticity is your strength. Don’t let market demands dictate your work. What feels new and innovative to you may not gain instant recognition, and that’s okay. Consistency and persistence will carve out your unique space.

Then comes the fear of judgment – a universal hurdle. The moment you start expressing your true self, judgment creeps in. Fear of criticism can lead you to conform and play it safe. But here’s the truth – standing out is liberating. Embrace the fear, push past it, and revel in your unique style.

Finding Your Unique Artist Voice Is A Journey

Artistic evolution is inevitable. As you grow, your skills and perspectives evolve. Don’t be confined by the notion that you reach a pinnacle and stay there forever. Embrace the fluidity of your journey, allowing your voice to evolve with you.

Finding your artistic voice is finding confidence in creating what resonates with you. It’s about being real and authentic, creating work that is deeply meaningful to you and potentially connects with others who share your essence.

So, experiment, embrace what you love, and focus on your authenticity. Your voice is the unique melody within you, waiting to be heard. Share it with the world, fearlessly. Remember, you’re amazing, keep creating, and I’ll catch you next week. Adios!

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Letting Go of the Glitches: A Rogue’s Reflection on Simplifying Life

Today, we embark on a journey through the intricacies of managing a self-run membership site versus the streamlined simplicity of Patreon.

A year ago, we bid farewell to Patreon in pursuit of greater control and customization for our members on our dedicated website, theroguecommunity.com. The decision seemed like the right move, given our desire to offer a plethora of exclusive content and interactions. Little did we anticipate the challenges that lay ahead.

Our artistic haven, the Rogue community, thrives on live podcasts, private streams, workshops, art challenges, exclusive videos, and more. We’ve created a vibrant space for artists to connect and grow. However, as we delved into the intricacies of managing our own site, we discovered a hidden labyrinth of technical glitches, especially with the WordPress framework and various plugins required to deliver the best membership options.

The past year became a testament to the delicate balance between managing a thriving online community and nurturing one’s artistic soul. The website, while a hub of creativity, also became a source of unexpected challenges. Every week, a new glitch emerged, demanding my attention and diverting my focus from the art studio.

As an artist, my yearly goal is to create at least 150 new works of art, a lofty ambition that drives my passion for creation. However, the demands of troubleshooting website issues left little room for artistic endeavors. Despite the behind-the-scenes chaos, the members remained blissfully unaware, shielded from the technical storms I wrestled with.

The stark realization hit me hard – in the pursuit of providing more for our community, I inadvertently sacrificed my personal artistic goals. The very essence of being an artist involves immersion in the creative process, yet I found myself entangled in the complexities of maintaining a membership website.

Last year’s goal was to simplify, a mantra that echoed through our endeavors. We streamlined processes, eliminated unnecessary complexities, and aimed for a more straightforward approach. However, the website posed a significant challenge, introducing unforeseen technical complexities that disrupted the delicate balance we sought.

The toll on my artistic output was profound. The studio, my sanctuary, became a neglected haven, visited sporadically amid the chaos of fixing glitches and ensuring the website’s seamless operation. Art, the lifeblood of my existence, took a backseat to the demands of managing a self-run platform.

The financial repercussions were undeniable. While the membership site contributed to our income, the artistic side, our primary source of revenue, suffered a decline. It became apparent that the pursuit of a self-run membership site had unintended consequences on both my artistic fulfillment and our financial stability.

As the year drew to a close, a profound reevaluation became imperative. Simplify had been our guiding principle, yet the reality begged for a more drastic shift. The decision to let go of the self-run membership site, despite the fears and uncertainties it brought, became a pivotal moment in reclaiming artistic autonomy.

The fear of returning to Patreon with a metaphorical “tail between our legs” clashed with the realization that holding onto a project that no longer served its purpose was detrimental. The members, our cherished rogues, remained at the forefront of our considerations. However, it was evident that a significant change was needed to restore the delicate balance between community management and artistic creation.

The decision to let go was not merely a surrender; it was a reclaiming of artistic agency. The emotional turmoil – fear, financial concerns, and a tinge of regret – were overshadowed by the need for a renewed focus on art.

This podcast episode serves as an open narrative, offering a glimpse into the struggles and realizations of the past year. It’s a testament to the artist’s journey, the constant negotiation between creative passion and external demands.

As we step into 2024, the mantra shifts to “simplify.” Yet, this year’s simplicity transcends the mere elimination of unnecessary complexities. It delves deeper into the notion of shedding projects that no longer serve our artistic essence.

The lesson is clear – life is short, and time is a precious currency. Focus on the things you love, and let go of the burdens that hinder your creative journey. In sharing this personal odyssey, I hope it resonates with fellow artists facing similar struggles.

Adios, wonderful rogues! May your 2024 be a year of simplicity, focus on magic, love, and everything that brings you joy. Life’s canvas awaits, and it’s time to paint with unabated passion.

Have an amazing, art-filled week, and I look forward to our next rendezvous. Until then, stay inspired!

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Why Do I Put Off Creative Projects?

I’ve got a burning topic that’s been tickling my brain all week, and it’s about the sneaky ways we convince ourselves that we’re not procrastinating when we totally are. You know, the art of self-trickery.

I Need More Research.

So, picture this: you’ve got this brilliant project or art career you’re dying to dive into, but somehow, you find yourself tangled in the infamous research loop. You’re convinced you need to know more, and before you know it, you’re knee-deep in a vortex of information, with no end in sight. Research is essential, but there’s a fine line between knowing enough and drowning in the sea of Google tabs.

I Need More Time.

And let’s not forget the classic “I need more time” excuse. We’ve all been there, swearing up and down that the day only has 24 hours, conveniently forgetting that Beyoncé also has the same 24 hours. Time is a sneaky thing. The longer you put off your masterpiece, the more time magically disappears, or so we tell ourselves.

I Need To Be Told It’s OK To Do This.

Now, here’s a gem: waiting for permission. Newsflash, you don’t need a golden ticket from Willy Wonka to start creating. Don’t sit around twiddling your thumbs, hoping for someone to discover you. Be your own art superhero and put yourself out there. It’s like jumping into the deep end of a pool – it’s scary, but it’s where the magic happens.

Don’t Put Off Projects Just Relax And Have Fun

I Should Be Doing Something Important.

And here’s a personal favorite of mine – the “it’s irresponsible” excuse. Sometimes, your brain tells you that pursuing your passion is reckless, especially if it doesn’t come with a fat paycheck. But guess what? Responsibility is overrated. Dive into those passion projects, even if they’re not swimming in dollar bills. The reward is in the process, not just the outcome.

I Need More Money.

Ah, the money excuse. “I’ll start when I have more money.” Been there, done that, bought the T-shirt. Spoiler alert: you’ll never feel like you have enough money. Embrace the chaos, start with what you have, and watch the magic unfold.

I Have Kids.

Now, kids and responsibilities – a legitimate concern. But hey, you can be an artist and a responsible adult simultaneously. Show your kids the beauty of pursuing your dreams, and don’t be the parent who only preaches. Be the parent who paints the picture of a life well-lived.

I Need The Right Logo.

And don’t get me started on the “I don’t have the right space or logo” nonsense. Your creative journey doesn’t hinge on having the perfect setup. Picasso didn’t wait for the stars to align, and neither should you. Use what you have, where you are, and let the creativity flow.

Don’t Put Off Projects Just Relax And Have Fun

In conclusion, just get started. Break free from the chains of procrastination, even if it’s just baby steps. Embrace the suck, because everything you do will suck until it doesn’t. Happy holidays, you incredible beings. ! adore you all, and will catch you on the flip side! Adios!

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Navigating The Holidays As An Artist

I want to share some thoughts with you as we navigate the wild landscape of artistry during the holiday season.

The holidays are a peculiar time for artists, aren’t they? A blend of opportunities and challenges, where the art you pour your soul into may or may not find its way into the hearts of others. I’ve had years of both highs and lows during this festive season, and I want to let you in on a little secret: it’s not just about the art.

Sure, art is a deeply personal gift, and it can be a hit or miss during the holidays. But here’s the thing, the magic doesn’t lie in waiting for someone to recognize your masterpiece. It lies in how you navigate these times and turn challenges into opportunities.

During the holidays, I’ve learned to adapt. I create unique items like ornaments and limited-edition calendars, making my art more accessible and giftable. It’s not about compromising authenticity; it’s about finding ways to connect with people during a season when gifting is at its peak.

Let’s talk about the emotional rollercoaster this season can be. Whether you’re soaring high on sales or feeling the weight of unsold pieces, remember this: your art matters. Every stroke, every color choice, every piece of your soul poured onto the art makes a difference.

It’s easy to get caught up in the commercial frenzy of the holidays, with businesses shouting about sales and discounts. As an artist, you might feel the pressure to join in. And that’s okay—just make sure you do it authentically. Create something special, something that aligns with your artistic vision.

Promoting your work consistently is a challenge, no doubt. I had to make videos, posts, and blogs reminding people about my calendar until the last day of the virtual show when the final pieces found their homes. It’s exhausting, and there’s that inner voice whispering in your head that you’re being annoying. But remember, your voice matters, and your art deserves to be seen.

If the financial success doesn’t come during the holidays, don’t let it discourage you. Your art is bigger than any sale or promotion. Each brushstroke is a step toward your masterpiece. Your journey as an artist is a masterpiece in itself. Embrace the process, the highs, the lows, and everything in between.

So, as we dive into the holiday madness, remember why you started this journey. It’s not just about making money or becoming a marketing whiz. It’s about expressing your authentic self to the world. Your art is a unique gift, and you are the masterpiece.

Wishing you all a joyful holiday season, filled with creativity, authenticity, and the unwavering belief that your art matters. Adios until next week!

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Finishing Your Art Projects

Welcome to this week’s expedition into the realm of finishing art projects. Today, Klee and I embarked on a podcast adventure, exploring the depths of creativity, struggles, and the elusive art of completing our art projects. Now, gather ’round, as I unravel the tapestry of our conversation.

The Uncharted Terrain of Project Completion:

We delved into the seemingly straightforward concept of finishing art projects. What does it truly mean to complete a project? Well, according to Klee, it’s as simple as finishing your art projects. A good answer, indeed, and yet, the journey unfolds with more complexity than meets the eye. The act of completing is sometimes an act of will. Also, give yourself more time, just because you put something on a shelf, doesn’t mean you are never going to finish it.

The Balancing Act of Creative Multiplicity:

As creatives, we often find ourselves juggling an array of projects—sound, books, videos, paintings, and jewelry. The challenge, Klee and I noted, lies in striking a balance amid this myriad of creative pursuits. The intricate dance between various mediums requires focus, intention, and, most importantly, the art of finishing what we start.

Single-Tasking Greatness:

In the midst of our creative chaos, we echoed the sentiment that multitasking is but an illusion. The key to unlocking greatness lies in single-tasking—pouring our undivided attention into one project at a time. The revelation? Focus is the secret sauce to letting our creative mojo thrive.

Navigating the Post-Holiday Lull:

Post-holiday periods often bring a paradox of challenges. While busy times demand strategic thinking, the lull can tempt us into the abyss of indecision. Klee shared her struggles during these quieter times and the importance of deliberate downtime—conscious choices to recalibrate rather than getting lost in the void of “I don’t know what to do today.”

“Fa Chunking” and Embracing Strategic Focus:

Fiona introduced the concept of “fa chunking,” a brilliant strategy to break projects into manageable 5-minute increments. Whether pushing through or hitting pause, this technique allows for intentional and strategic progress. Klee highlighted the value of strategic focus, ensuring that our creative endeavors align with our current priorities.

As we wrapped up this artistic odyssey, one thing became abundantly clear—finishing art projects is not just about the final brushstroke or concluding note. It’s a journey of self-discovery, intentional choices, and the delicate dance of balancing our creative pursuits.

So, whether you’re navigating the chaos of creativity or embracing the calm after the storm, remember to find your rhythm. Clear the cache, chunk your time, and, above all, relish in the joy of creating. May your creative week be filled with magic, wonder, and the completion of inspiring projects.

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When You Are Not Feeling Your Creativity

Today, I want to share something personal, something I’ve been grappling with lately – the challenge of bouncing back from the edge of feeling creatively drained. It’s a journey I find myself on at this very moment.

A couple of weeks ago, a negative comment on one of my YouTube videos hit me like a curveball. What made it worse was that it came from someone I know. It wasn’t just a run-of-the-mill internet troll; it was someone I had a connection with. The negativity wasn’t even related to the video itself but was rooted in some unrelated drama involving a toxic person in my life. My knee-jerk reaction was, “I don’t need this,” and I firmly believe that when dealing with toxicity, the best course of action is to cut ties.

However, this incident coincided with the holiday season, the release of my calendars, and the adjustments that come with my daughter moving in. Balancing it all became overwhelming, and exhaustion began to creep in. The familiar feeling of not having enough time for everything, especially after facing an emotional hurdle, became all too real.

This year, my focus has been on simplifying – simplifying schedules, tasks, and life in general. But even with that intention, life has a way of throwing unexpected challenges our way. Many of you reading this may relate – just when you think you’ve got it together, a wrench gets thrown into the works.

In these moments, the typical response is to force ourselves to move forward, to push through the challenges and not display any weakness. But here’s the truth – suppressing and burying emotions is not a sustainable solution. It might seem like a good idea, but those buried emotions will resurface, and when they do, the impact can be profound.

Pulling Yourself Out Of A Slump

So, what do you do when you’re caught in a whirlwind of emotions and a demanding schedule? The first step, and it might sound cliché, is to acknowledge and accept your feelings. Give yourself permission to feel what you’re feeling, and don’t rush the process. I’ve come to view myself as two entities – the boss and the employee. There’s often conflict between the two, with the boss demanding productivity and the employee feeling overwhelmed. It’s crucial to recognize and accept both aspects.

The next step is to take a break. Change your environment if needed. I find solace in what I call walking meditation – a mindful stroll to clear my mind. Following this, I practice mindfulness and relaxation, purposefully directing my thoughts. It’s about taking control of your mind instead of letting it spiral into negativity.

If inspiration strikes, I engage in a creative outlet without the pressure of it becoming work. It’s about creating for the sake of creating, not for selling or posting. This process, coupled with seeking inspiration from like-minded individuals, helps in regaining clarity and motivation.

Klee Clearing Her Mind After Her Bench Was Destroyed

At the end of the day, when you’re not feeling it, give yourself the space to heal. Our instinct is often to soldier on, but there’s strength in acknowledging your thoughts, processing them, and then moving forward with a clearer understanding of yourself and your goals.

Remember, you’re not a cog in your own machine; you are your own boss. Don’t let that boss shame you or make you feel inadequate. Take the time to focus on your relationship with yourself, practice self-love, and give yourself the space needed for growth.

So, if you find yourself at the brink, know that it’s okay to pause, reflect, and heal. You’re doing more than you realize, and sometimes, giving yourself the time and space you need is the best way to move forward.

Alright, that’s all I have for you today. I appreciate each and every one of you. Adios, and I’ll catch you next week.

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Juggling Art With A Job

Today, we’re diving headfirst into the world of juggling, not the circus kind with flaming torches (although that would be awesome), but the art of balancing a side hustle, a corporate gig, and our artwork. 

This topic comes from our friend Chris, he asked, “Now that I’m doing some dog walking as a side hustle I’m finding I have little to no energy for art, or at least not the big painting projects. Instead just sketchbook doodles. Any tips for when the focus is on one thing, the dogs, energy low but still wish to be producing some paintings, or do I just need to let it go and accept life is very different for the moment?”

THE PROBLEM

Chris decides to spice up his financial game by venturing into the world of dog walking alongside his art. But, alas, the struggle is real. Exhaustion sets in, and the poor guy can’t find the time or energy to give his artistic soul the attention it deserves.

Firstly, major kudos to Chris for taking the plunge into the entrepreneurial waters of dog walking. Being your own boss of two businesses is like conquering a dragon—it’s no small feat. Now, as a fellow ringmaster juggling various artistic endeavors, YouTube videos, podcasts, books, music, and a membership site, let me spill the beans on the not-so-secret sauce: a schedule.

We Are All On This Creative Journey Of Craziness

CREATE A SCHEDULE

I know, I know, schedules can feel like a creative straightjacket. But trust me, without some semblance of order, you’ll be doing the crazy dance of chaos. And nobody wants that. No one likes being told what to do. But a schedule you create? That’s the roadmap to sanity in the whirlwind of creativity.

NON-FINANCIAL PRIORITIES

Now, let’s talk about priorities. Art is a slow burn. It’s not a microwave pizza you pop in for quick results. It requires dedicated time. When the exhaustion hits, it’s tempting to prioritize the money-making hustle over the passion project. But be wary—you don’t want to turn your love into a joyless job.

We Are All On This Creative Journey Of Craziness

TAKE BREAKS

And here’s the golden rule: self-care is not negotiable. Breaks are not a luxury; they’re a necessity. It’s like recharging your creative batteries. Remember, you’re more productive when you’re not running on fumes.

STAY ORGANIZED AND REALISTIC

Organization is your loyal ally. The Fantastic Four list (no, not the superheroes) keeps your tasks manageable. No overloading yourself! Stay realistic with your goals. You’re not a comic book hero; you’re an artist. So, chill on the unrealistic expectations.

MAKE IT EASY

Creating an environment that makes it easy to start is an art in itself. Don’t make the process an obstacle course. A clutter-free table with an easel ready to roll can be your artistic haven. Make starting a breeze, not a hurricane.

STAY INSPIRED

When life throws curveballs, and your art takes a backseat, don’t beat yourself up. It’s okay. Life is unpredictable. Stress management is the key—don’t let worry and self-doubt hijack your creative journey. Take a breather.

We Are All On This Creative Journey Of Craziness

IT’LL ALL BE OK

And the grand finale—give yourself permission. It’s okay if the canvas stays untouched for a while. Life is a constant ebb and flow. If you need to figure stuff out, take your time. Art will be waiting patiently, like a loyal amigo.

So, Chris, whether you dive back into your art or take a temporary creative siesta, it’s all in your hands. Your journey, your rules. And to everyone tuning in, keep being amazing, keep creating, and remember, it’s okay—art can wait, but life won’t. Adios for now!

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Overcoming Obstacles As An Artist

Welcome to the chaotic rollercoaster that is my life in the art studio. Seriously, it’s been like juggling flaming swords while trying to chew gum and create art—yeah, that kind of crazy!

My daughter just joined the circus—uh, I mean, moved in. Adjusting to the new family dynamic is a whole wild ride, albeit a wonderful one. But hey, in the midst of this chaos, I thought, why not sit down and have a little art party with you guys? Because who doesn’t love a good art party?

Now, let’s talk about overcoming obstacles. I am in the midst of dealing with some and I wanted to share my insight on how I deal with them. Let’s get right into it.

I KEEP A POSITIVE MINDSET.

I know, I know, positive mindset sounds like something you’d find on a unicorn’s wishlist, but bear with me. Picture this: you’re spiraling down into the abyss of a problem, and all you see are roadblocks. That’s when you need to whip out the positivity like it’s confetti at a celebration. Shift your focus from the problem to the things that you can control. It’s like a magic trick, but better.

And positive vibes don’t mean slapping a happy face sticker on everything. Oh no, we’re diving into the deep end of emotions, facing them head-on. It’s like emotional weightlifting—acknowledge, don’t bury.

Overcome Obstacles By Remembering Your Power

I BLAME NO ONE.

Blame game, anyone? Nope, we’re not playing. Blaming others is like handing over your superhero cape; you lose your personal power. So, be an astronaut with a ballpoint pen—get creative, find solutions, and for the love of art, just do your thing.

I FA-CHUNKING DO IT.

Now, let’s talk strategy. Ever heard of fa-chunking? It’s not a new dance move; it’s a game-changer. Break down your tasks into bite-sized chunks, and chip away at that obstacle like a ninja sculptor in 5, 15, or 50 minutes. Chip away at the obstacle gradually. It’s all about avoiding burnout and staying on the path without overwhelming yourself. And if one day you’re not feeling it, well, give yourself permission to Netflix and chill. Pick it up tomorrow; it’s not going anywhere.

Distractions, distractions. We’re all guilty of trying to be multitasking wizards, thinking about everything at once. Spoiler alert: it’s a procrastination party. Stay focused, stay the course, and save the mental breakdowns for your one-person fa-chunking dance-off in the studio.

I STAY ADAPTABLE.

Adaptability is the name of the game. Life’s not black and white; it’s a freaking rainbow. Be crazy, be unpredictable, change things up. It’s like being a mad scientist, but without the explosions (hopefully).

Overcome Obstacles By Remembering Your Power

I ALLOW MYSELF TO HAVE A TANTRUM.

Tantrums, because why not? We all have them, and it’s perfectly okay. Release those emotions in your own way, just avoid causing chaos by directing it at anyone else. It’s not about them, it’s about you. It’s like a solo rock concert in your living room—let it out, and then move on.

I STAY RESOURCEFUL.

Resourcefulness time. It’s okay not to have all the answers. Reach out, face your fears, ask for help. But seriously, skip asking Steve and Uncle Charles. They don’t get it. Seek advice from the cool cats who understand your artistic journey.

PERSIST THROUGH THE BULLSHIT

Last but not least, let’s talk persistence and determination. Focus on what you can control, not just the big, scary end goal. Grit is your secret weapon. Even a smidge of grit can turn that turd into a shiny ball of success. And yes, I still don’t know how to feel about sanding a turd, but it’s a party in the analogy department.

And there you have it! These are the mindsets I keep in mind when I have an obstacle in my way! You can watch the video where I discuss this and get some more insight.

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MY CALENDAR IS STILL AVAILABLE (40 Left)

Big shoutout to everyone who snagged a calendar! We’ve got 40 left, and the pre-orders are still going strong until December 1st. 

2024 Calendars By Rafi Perez

Alright, it’s time for me to put on my creative superhero cape and dive back into the art abyss. Adios, you amazing artists! Remember, keep creating, keep partying, and most importantly, keep being fabulous!

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Challenging Notions of Normality and Embracing Creativity

Today, I’m diving headfirst into the whirlwind of thoughts and emotions that often ensnare us artists in the pursuit of validation. Buckle up for some truth bombs and a few rambles about what we experience in this wild artistic journey.

Let’s unpack this: the world sometimes frowns upon our choice to weave dreams into reality. There’s this pervasive notion that being an artist is indulgent, impractical, and perhaps a touch on the childish side. But, spoiler alert—it couldn’t be farther from reality! You and I, and all of us creative souls, are the true change-makers, the visionaries of the world. We aren’t just decorators for the elite; we’re warriors wielding brushes, chisels, or words to shape the universe.

As Artists, we challenge the world.

In a society fixated on the hamster wheel of ‘normalcy,’ many of us have done the corporate gig—punched the clock, treaded the corporate ladder, and danced the dance of conforming to predetermined roles. It’s almost like being a cog in someone else’s wheel, striving for bonuses, climbing that ladder, hoping not to get the boot in uncertain times. It’s a reality that sucks the life out of living, disguised as a mirage of security.

But here’s the rub: that ‘security’ is often a facade, a glittering illusion we’re taught to chase. The truth is, the sky’s the limit when you’re an artist. Sure, there’s no weekly paycheck guarantee, but what you invest is what you reap. As for me, the corporate pay was handsome, but it had a ceiling, a limit to the joy I could wring out of it.

I’d Rather Be Happy Than Responsible.

Yes, there’s that incessant battle for validation, isn’t there? As an artist, explaining what we do can sometimes feel like describing a technicolor dream to a black-and-white thinker. It’s tough for people to grasp the multifaceted nature of our work. But, here’s the silver lining—embracing this unique path is a choice to express authentically, to craft something genuinely ours. It’s about donning multiple hats, being a businessperson, an artist, and a wild dreamer all at once.

Life isn’t a dress rehearsal. When we’re on our last voyage, it won’t be thoughts of more money or being ‘normal’ that crowd our minds. It’ll be the undying wish to have pursued our passions, embraced our authenticity, and shared our creativity with the world.

Our art? It’s more than a pretty ornament. It’s a catalyst for change, a gentle whisper nudging the world toward a more colorful existence. The mere act of boldly putting ourselves out there, embracing vulnerability, and persisting despite setbacks—each step chips away at the walls society builds around itself.

We Create Change By Being Who We Are Meant To Be.

And here’s a truth bomb: we are dreamers, rebels against conformity. We’re not just living but striving for more, pushing against the mundane, and inspiring others to do the same. What we create, our art, leaves an indelible mark. It becomes a timeless echo, outliving our mortal selves.

So, keep that childlike wonder alive. Embrace the messiness of creation and revel in the chaos of your creativity. Your art matters. It’s not selfish, it’s practical, and it’s a blaze of inspiration. Don’t let the world dim that shining beacon of imagination within you. Keep creating, keep inspiring, and most importantly, keep being unapologetically you.

Until next week, keep shining bright, you wonderful beings. Adios for now, and let’s keep painting this world with our vibrant hues. Cheers to all the magical unicorns out there!

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Navigating the Silence in the Era of Social Media

Today, I’ve been thinking about something that probably resonates with many of you: the deafening silence an artist faces when their creations seemingly vanish into the void of social media. It’s like throwing a party and no one showing up. It sucks, doesn’t it?

This morning, my thoughts wandered to that familiar feeling of being ignored as an artist. You pour your heart and soul into your work, excitedly share it on platforms, and… nothing. No likes, no comments, just a cavernous silence. It’s a peculiar kind of pain, isn’t it? It’s almost as if silence speaks louder than words, whispering doubts and uncertainties into our minds.

Many will tell you to develop a thick skin, to be impervious to this silence, but I beg to differ. Having a thick skin feels like constructing barriers around yourself, isolating your vulnerability. But the truth is, vulnerability is at the core of artistry. When you put your work out there, you’re baring your soul. So, it’s no wonder that the lack of response hurts so deeply.

Just Be Yourself

It’s intriguing how our brains craft stories around this silence, weaving narratives that tell us we’re not good enough, that our art is unworthy. And the quest for validation often fuels this inner turmoil. We find ourselves seeking recognition, craving acknowledgment for our creative endeavors.

Social media, while a great platform for sharing, can be a double-edged sword. It’s a breeding ground for comparison, where follower count equates to success or failure. But here’s the reality: the number of followers doesn’t define your worth as an artist. Whether you have 100 or 10,000 followers, it doesn’t diminish the value of your art.

I’ve experienced the allure of chasing the algorithm, attempting to garner more attention. But the more you obsess over this, the more it distances you from the real purpose—sharing your art for the joy of creation, not for external validation.

My approach has been simple: I share because I want to. I post what excites me, not for the response it might generate. It’s about creating a personal record, a digital journal of my artistic journey. This approach might not yield immediate results, but it’s authentic and true to my creative essence.

Just Be Yourself

For those struggling with this silence, my advice is this: reframe the narrative. Instead of giving power to platforms and seeking external validation, focus on making the act of sharing enjoyable for yourself. Don’t let the platforms dictate your art. Create for you, not for metrics or validation from others.

Embrace the fact that being ignored is part of the artist’s journey. Your art is an expression of your unique voice, and it deserves to be heard, even if the audience is silent. Be a thorn in the side of silence, persistently sharing your work, refusing to be deterred by the lack of immediate recognition.

Remember, your value as an artist isn’t measured by external metrics. Keep creating, keep sharing, and most importantly, do it for yourself. You are truly awesome, regardless of likes or follower counts. Don’t let anything stop you from expressing your creativity.

Well, that’s it for today! Remember, I absolutely adore each and every one of you. Until next time, keep being the wonderful, resilient artists you are. Catch you later!