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Why It’s Okay to Put Things Off and How to Make It Work for You

Ah, procrastination—the time-honored tradition of putting off until tomorrow what could definitely, maybe, sort of, possibly be done today. If you’re reading this instead of tackling that big project, welcome! You’ve come to the right place. Here, we’ll explore why procrastination isn’t the evil villain it’s often made out to be and how you can actually turn it into a superpower. Yes, you read that right—a superpower.

Recently, I took on a project that was supposed to span four months. Naturally, I did what any good procrastinator would do—I put it off. Then, in what can only be described as a burst of last-minute genius (or panic, depending on how you look at it), I started and finished the entire project in just one week. I surprised myself, honestly. But when I think back, every large project I’ve tackled has followed this same pattern. I procrastinate, I panic a little, and then, somehow, the magic happens.

This recent experience was a wake-up call for me. I realized that maybe—just maybe—I need to start trusting the process. Procrastination isn’t a sign that I’m slacking off; it’s just part of my creative rhythm. And when the deadline looms, that’s when the real magic kicks in. So instead of fighting it, I’ve decided to embrace it. After all, it’s worked for me so far!

The Procrastination Club: Membership Perks Include Snacks and Panic

First off, let’s get one thing straight: if you procrastinate, you’re not lazy, unmotivated, or doomed to a life of unfinished tasks. You’re just human. That’s right—procrastination is as universal as sneezing, and pretty much everyone does it. Whether it’s avoiding a deadline, putting off cleaning the garage, or postponing that dentist appointment, we’ve all been there. As a member of the Procrastination Club, our unofficial motto is, “I’ll get to it… eventually.” As a member, you’ll enjoy snacks, spontaneous cleaning sprees, and the occasional moment of panic. It’s a blast, really.

Why Do We Procrastinate? It’s All About Fear (and a Little Bit of Fun)

Let’s dig into why we procrastinate. A lot of the time, it’s fear. Fear of not being good enough, fear of failing, fear of realizing you’ve bitten off more than you can chew (which is ironic, considering how much snacking happens during procrastination). You might look at that big, looming deadline and think, “What if I can’t pull this off? What if I don’t have what it takes?”

Here’s a secret: that fear isn’t doing you any favors. It’s just making you stress out over something that, in the grand scheme of things, probably isn’t as life-or-death as you’re making it out to be. Deadlines can feel like doomsday clocks ticking down to zero, but in reality, they’re just goal posts—places to aim for. Whether you get there early, on time, or with a last-minute dash, the important thing is that you get there.

Deadlines: Not the End of the World, Just a Suggestion

Remember back in school when missing a deadline meant a bad grade, or at work when it could mean losing your job? No wonder we’ve turned deadlines into these monstrous, stress-inducing things. But here’s a little perspective: deadlines are important, sure, but they’re not the end of the world. More often than not, you’ll meet them just fine—especially if you’re not wasting energy stressing out about the process.

Instead of seeing deadlines as immovable, terrifying barriers, try thinking of them as flexible targets. Your job is to get as close as possible, and if you don’t hit the bullseye, it’s not the end of the world. Sometimes, that last-minute burst of creativity is exactly what you need to pull it all together.

The Last-Minute Magic: How Procrastination Can Boost Creativity

Now, let’s talk about the silver lining. Believe it or not, procrastination can actually boost your creativity. When you give your brain some space to wander (read: procrastinate), it has a chance to mull things over in the background. You might not be actively working on your project, but your subconscious is—and when you finally sit down to get it done, you might find yourself in a creative flow that surprises you.

It’s like when you’re trying to remember the name of that actor in that one movie, and it only comes to you hours later when you’re doing something completely unrelated. Your brain is sneaky like that. So, next time you find yourself procrastinating, don’t panic. Let your mind wander a bit—you might just stumble upon the idea or solution you were looking for.

Turning Procrastination into Productivity: The Art of the Deadline Dash

When the deadline is finally breathing down your neck, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. But here’s the good news: this is where the magic happens. That looming deadline can actually sharpen your focus and drive you to perform at your best. Sure, it might be stressful, but it’s also exhilarating in its own way. There’s something about the pressure that makes everything snap into place.

So, when you find yourself in that final-hour crunch, don’t despair. Embrace it. Pour yourself a strong cup of coffee, put on your favorite get-stuff-done playlist, and dive in. You’ll be amazed at what you can accomplish when the clock is ticking.

Procrastination Is Human—Embrace It

At the end of the day, procrastination isn’t something to be ashamed of. It’s a natural part of the creative process. Sure, it might make things a little more stressful at times, but it also gives your brain the space it needs to percolate on ideas. And when it’s go-time, you’ll be ready to bring your best, last-minute A-game.

So, if you find yourself procrastinating, don’t beat yourself up. Instead, laugh it off, enjoy a snack, and know that when the time comes, you’ll get it done. And who knows? You might just discover that your best work happens when you embrace the chaos and let the creative juices flow in those final moments.

After all, as the old saying goes, “It is what it is”—and sometimes, what it is turns out to be pretty awesome.

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The Most Wonderful (Thing About) Time

It’s the most wonderful time of the year, and we are bouncing around the art studio like crazy elves who have lost their minds.

Every year, I say “Next year I’m going to take it easy and not put too much on my plate.” By the time June arrives, my Jekyll and Hyde shambles out of hibernation and forgets what the plan was. That’s usually when I get REALLY excited about doing some project that I’ve wanted to do, which then leads to another and another. By the time the holiday season comes around, I’m writing two books and a workbook, recording audiobooks, designing a new series of paintings, revamping the website, designing playing and tarot cards, finalizing art calendars, expanding on video and music creations, and planning for art encased in resin for jewelry. Not to mention all the ongoing projects, commissions, orders, and normal business running type things. Then you get into the multitude of projects Klee is working on and it looks like a metal confetti bomb went off in the studio.

Rafi in a messy art studio

The thing is, I honestly don’t know that I would have it any other way. I remember the first three years that Klee and I really went for this creative lifestyle that we are living, and the studio was a snooze fest. I mean, we had music, fun, and the occasional projects going on, but I think I was a little timider back then when it came to time. I would hear myself say things like “I’ll work on that when I have time.”

The problem was that I never had enough time to do anything… so I never got started on things and they went in a journal.

The one thing you have to do as an artist is create. If you are not creating and you are always just thinking of creating, then I’m not sure you can call yourself an artist. I mean, you can call yourself whatever you want, but you won’t FEEL like an artist, which is what matters most in my line of work.

The irony is I am working on WAY more projects now and seem to have more time. A few years ago, I realized that it wasn’t the number of things I was doing, it was how I felt doing them. More importantly, what narrative was I repeating to myself about what I was doing?

Time seems to follow a universal, tick tock rhythm… but it doesn’t. In the Special Theory of Relativity, That guy with the crazy hair determined that time is relative. In other words, the rate at which time passes depends on your frame of reference.

Let me blow your mind with some strange and most likely incorrect “Rafi logic”. We know that the faster a clock moves, the slower time passes according to someone in a different frame of reference. That’s why GPS clocks on satellites have to adjust depending on their speed because the faster they move, the slower our clocks run down here on earth. Yeah, that shit is cray. The clocks on the satellite tick slightly faster, by about 45 microseconds per day.

To me, that means that if you are in movement, time slows down around you. So when you are just sitting there telling yourself you don’t have enough time or hemming and hawing about how to start, chances are, you’ll feel like there is not enough time. In my experience, whenever I get stuck in an indecisive rut, the day just flies by and next thing you know, I haven’t done anything.

On the other hand, when I just fa-chunk it and get started, I usually get more done than I anticipated. Klee likes to call it warping space and time.

That is the most wonderful time. The time I make for the things I love. This year as you run around trying to get all the things done, keep this in mind… Just do it.

Get started on that project. Give that hug. Say I love you. Take that walk. Take that phone call. Take a moment to appreciate the little things. Do that thing that scares you. Change that habit you don’t like. Smile at yourself in the mirror. Take time to relax. Read that book. All of those things that you have put off… Just do it.

No one said you have to get them done in a day, or do them ALL now, but if you don’t get at least one started, it will never happen.

Try not to repeat the words “I don’t have enough time.” and replace them with the words “I make time for the things that matter to me.”

So enjoy this Holiday and make time for ALL those special little things that you love.