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PODCAST 169: Bonus: Fail Like A Creative Champion

In this bonus podcast, Rafi discusses why it is powerful to fail. Find out more about us at http://www.rafiandklee.com


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Day Job Vs Your Art Job – Artist Podcast ARTIST PODCAST With Rafi And Klee

In this podcast, Klee and I discuss the mindset behind having a day job and your art career. We talk about struggles and solutions, and so much more. WHO ARE RAFI AND KLEE STUDIOS Curious about who we are? Visit our website and get to know us and all we do. https://rafiandklee.com/ WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT OUR COMMUNITY ON PATREON? https://rafiandklee.com/patreon/ Thank you for supporting the Artist Life Podcast with Rafi and Klee! You rock!
  1. Day Job Vs Your Art Job – Artist Podcast
  2. Coming Back To Creativity – Artist Podcast
  3. Knowing When To Push Or Step Back In Your Art Career
  4. Things We Wish Someone Told Us As Baby Artists – Artist Podcast
  5. How to Talk About Art Without Being a Snob – Bonus Artist Podcast
  6. Should I Always Be Working And Hustling As An Artist? – Artist Podcast
  7. Art Blocks And Brain Farts – Artist Podcast
  8. How To Get Creative For 2026 – Artist Podcast
  9. Less Is More Is Our New Creative Mantra – Artist Podcast
  10. Comparing Yourself Is A Crock

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Shifting Gears: From Comparison to Connection in Art and Life

I’ve spent some time soul-searching, trying to pin down what exactly led me down a path of burnout and stress. Today, I’m excited to share some revelations with you about mindset shifts that have begun to transform not just my art, but my life.

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The Trap of the Comparison Game

Here’s the truth: the art career is more than a job—it’s a lifestyle. And in this lifestyle, it’s dangerously easy to fall into the comparison trap. You see someone new on the scene, exploding with success, and it’s natural to wonder, “What am I doing wrong?” I’ve been there, scrolling through social media, inadvertently playing this comparison game, measuring my worth against others’ highlights.

But here’s the thing—comparison steals your joy and your unique creative spark. It took me a while, but I realized that comparing was leading nowhere but to more self-doubt.

Turning Competition into Connection

Then came the competitive spirit, not the healthy kind, but a secretive, isolating one. It was me against them, even if ‘them’ were authors I admired or artists I aspired to connect with. But competition, in this sense, only served to separate me further from the community I cherished.

So, I asked myself, “What’s the opposite of competing?” The answer was clear: connecting. As artists, we’re in this together, crafting unique pieces that speak our truths. Realizing this, I began to shift from a mindset of isolation to one of collaboration and support.

Criticism to Commendation

Criticism followed competition. At first, it was directed at others, then at myself. This was perhaps the hardest to overcome. It’s easy to criticize when you feel threatened or insecure. Yet, I knew deep down that this wasn’t who I wanted to be.

Replacing criticism with commendation changed everything. Celebrating others’ successes, understanding the hard work they put in, and genuinely feeling happy for them helped me realize that their wins do not diminish my own. This shift not only improved my relationships but also my self-esteem.

From Complaining to Cherishing

Lastly, the complaining. Oh, the endless cycle of focusing on what’s wrong, what’s lacking, what should have been. It was exhausting. Instead, I’ve started to cherish. Cherishing the good in my life, the successes, big or small, and the simple fact that I get to create every day has brought me so much more peace and connectivity.

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Embracing a New Mindset

So here we are, shifting from comparing to comprehending, from competing to connecting, from criticizing to commending, and from complaining to cherishing. It might sound all “touchy-feely,” but ask yourself—how do you want to live your life? Entangled in jealousy and discontent, or embracing a world where you can truly appreciate and enjoy your journey as a creative human?

It’s a great question to ask yourself.

Have an amazing week, keep creating, and remember—you’re absolutely amazing just as you are.

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PODCAST 166: Take Control Of Your Art Journey

After a bit of a break to sort out our own lives, Klee and I are back on the air with our podcast. In our upcoming conversations, I’m excited to delve into the emotional side of pursuing an art career. It’s an aspect that often gets overlooked. So many advice blogs and resources focus on the intellectual “do this, then that” approach. But the truth is, as artists and as human beings, our diversity extends to how we feel about our work and our paths. That’s what Klee and I are eager to explore and share with our listeners. Find out more about us at http://www.rafiandklee.com


LISTEN TO THE LATEST EPISODES

Day Job Vs Your Art Job – Artist Podcast ARTIST PODCAST With Rafi And Klee

In this podcast, Klee and I discuss the mindset behind having a day job and your art career. We talk about struggles and solutions, and so much more. WHO ARE RAFI AND KLEE STUDIOS Curious about who we are? Visit our website and get to know us and all we do. https://rafiandklee.com/ WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT OUR COMMUNITY ON PATREON? https://rafiandklee.com/patreon/ Thank you for supporting the Artist Life Podcast with Rafi and Klee! You rock!
  1. Day Job Vs Your Art Job – Artist Podcast
  2. Coming Back To Creativity – Artist Podcast
  3. Knowing When To Push Or Step Back In Your Art Career
  4. Things We Wish Someone Told Us As Baby Artists – Artist Podcast
  5. How to Talk About Art Without Being a Snob – Bonus Artist Podcast
  6. Should I Always Be Working And Hustling As An Artist? – Artist Podcast
  7. Art Blocks And Brain Farts – Artist Podcast
  8. How To Get Creative For 2026 – Artist Podcast
  9. Less Is More Is Our New Creative Mantra – Artist Podcast
  10. Comparing Yourself Is A Crock

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PODCAST 165: BONUS: Art as a Catalyst: Defying the Norms

In this empowering bonus episode, Rafi dives into the heart of creative validation and the societal challenges artists face. Breaking down the misconceptions of choosing an artistic career, he speaks to every artist, musician, writer, sculptor, and creator who feels pressured by the quest for societal approval and financial security. Rafi’s personal journey from the corporate world to full-time artist sheds light on the unique power of art to change the world, challenge conformity, and inspire others to embrace their authentic selves. Encouraging creatives to persist in their passions despite criticism, this episode is a call to recognize the lasting impact of art and to keep the spirit of adventure alive in our creative endeavors.


LISTEN TO THE LATEST EPISODES

Day Job Vs Your Art Job – Artist Podcast ARTIST PODCAST With Rafi And Klee

In this podcast, Klee and I discuss the mindset behind having a day job and your art career. We talk about struggles and solutions, and so much more. WHO ARE RAFI AND KLEE STUDIOS Curious about who we are? Visit our website and get to know us and all we do. https://rafiandklee.com/ WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT OUR COMMUNITY ON PATREON? https://rafiandklee.com/patreon/ Thank you for supporting the Artist Life Podcast with Rafi and Klee! You rock!
  1. Day Job Vs Your Art Job – Artist Podcast
  2. Coming Back To Creativity – Artist Podcast
  3. Knowing When To Push Or Step Back In Your Art Career
  4. Things We Wish Someone Told Us As Baby Artists – Artist Podcast
  5. How to Talk About Art Without Being a Snob – Bonus Artist Podcast
  6. Should I Always Be Working And Hustling As An Artist? – Artist Podcast
  7. Art Blocks And Brain Farts – Artist Podcast
  8. How To Get Creative For 2026 – Artist Podcast
  9. Less Is More Is Our New Creative Mantra – Artist Podcast
  10. Comparing Yourself Is A Crock

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PODCAST 164: Overcoming Self Doubt As An Artist

In this podcast, Klee and I (Rafi) delve deep into the intricate journey of overcoming self-doubt as an artist. We explore the myriad challenges artists face in believing in their creative abilities and navigating the often turbulent waters of doubt and uncertainty. Through personal anecdotes, practical strategies, and insightful discussions, we aim to empower fellow artists to embrace their unique voice, conquer self-doubt, and unlock their full creative potential. Join us as we embark on a journey of self-discovery and artistic growth, inspiring listeners to overcome obstacles and thrive in their creative endeavors. Find out more about us at http://www.rafiandklee.com 

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Unleashing Your Artistic Superpower

The image above was taken in 2010 at the beginning of our artistic journey. This picture is the first step in us embracing our superpower. It’s a superpower that all creatives have inside. It is being you, with all your quirks and all your weirdness.

Today, we’re about to embark on a journey into the heart of what makes you not just an artist but a superhero in your own right – your uniqueness.

I’ve been deep in contemplation lately, navigating the twists and turns of my own creative path. Moving, life’s chaos, and a hiatus from art had left me grappling to rediscover my theme, my voice. And what stood in my way like a formidable adversary? Conformity.

Let’s call it what it is – conformity is the kryptonite for artists. It threatens to make us invisible, to drown out the very essence of what makes us special. But fear not, for embracing our uniqueness is the ultimate superpower.

In my artistic journey, I’ve found solace in embracing the quirks that make me, well, me. My artwork is fluid, a reflection of my rebellion against the meticulous finishing touches. There’s a rawness to it that my insecure side once questioned, but deep down, I adore it just the way it is.

Now, imagine your uniqueness as a melody within you, a rhythm that sets you apart from the symphony of the world. Every artist carries this unique tune, a blend of experiences, emotions, and perspectives – your artistic DNA. No two tunes are the same.

Conformity may seem like the easy path, but it’s a road that leads to invisibility. Picture it as trying to fit into a preset song, drowning out your individual tune. It might make you blend in, but it makes you vanish from the spotlight, turning you into background noise instead of the star of your own show.

Why is being unique a superpower? Because the world is noisy. Everyone is doing their thing, following trends. Standing out is not just crucial; it’s your signature move. Your uniqueness is the key to creating art that resonates profoundly because it comes from within you.

Now, let’s tackle the fear – the fear of being different, the fear of standing out. But here’s the truth: your uniqueness is not a weakness; it’s a strength. It’s your authenticity, your realness, and there’s nothing more powerful than authentic art. Stand in your confidence, surround yourself with those who celebrate diversity – fellow rogues who understand the value of being unique.

Experiment, explore, create your own path. Your uniqueness is your secret sauce, making your art memorable and incomparable. The road may be tough initially, with people struggling to understand your work. But keep putting it out there, for in time, they will compare it to your own unique journey.

Conformity is the silent killer of creativity. It stifles growth and hinders your own evolution. Embrace your uniqueness; it’s the antidote to invisibility. Don’t jump through hoops to fit in; stand out, for that is who you are.

So, how can you embrace your unique superpower? Start by accepting being different as a strength, not a weakness. Your uniqueness makes you authentic, real, and powerful.

Don’t be afraid to experiment, explore, and create your own way of doing things. The more you embrace your uniqueness, the louder it will resonate in the world. Your artwork will become more popular as you gain confidence in your own way of creating.

At the end of the day, remember this – your unique melody, the voice inside you, is your superpower. Don’t struggle to fit in, for your conformity might make you blend in, but it’s your uniqueness that will make you stand out. Stay unique, stay awesome, keep creating, keep dancing to your own beat, and embrace the rhythm that is your uniqueness.

I adore each and every one of you, Until next week, adios!

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Desperation Gets You Nowhere

I have answered a lot of letters over the years from artists who want to know my opinion on living the artist’s life. I am compiling those letters into a book that I am very excited about. Here is one of those letters. This is a response to someone who wanted to give up because they did a couple of art shows and didn’t sell anything. 

Dear Artist,

Greetings and creative vibes to you today! After reading your letter, I found myself immersed in a thought that I believe is crucial for us as artists, creators, and individuals on this incredible journey. It’s all about how we convey our message to the world – whether it’s through our art, at shows, on social media, or any other form of expression.

I know people out there may say to paste on a smile and keep presenting yourself to the world that way. That people will follow people that are confident and showing off the highlight reel is important. That is a terrible way to live and it is quite isolating. Instead, let’s focus on something deeper… something real – the way we communicate. Whether you’re selling at a show or creating content, your true feelings are bound to seep into your message. It’s like the lines between the lines, subtly revealing your emotions, no matter how hard you try to mask them.

You’re at a show, desperately trying to sell your creations. Feeling ignored and at wit’s end, you try to interact with people in a way that will bring a sale. Despite your friendly facade, that desperation is what people will sense. It puts them off. What is churning underneath will always come to the surface no matter how hard you try to hide it.

In that moment you feel victimized by the unfairness of it all. The desperation takes over. You NEED to sell something, you NEED to be validated, and You NEED to prove that you are good enough. However, in every situation, you have a choice – to feel like a victim or to feel empowered. You can either let circumstances and outcomes control you, or you can embrace your power, make decisions, and shape your own narrative.

When you feel stuck, when those clouds of doubt or stress loom over, they have the power to tarnish your outlook and hinder your creativity. But, here’s the thing – your priorities, your creative energy, they are yours to define. It’s all about the message you’re putting out there, not who is listening.

In our creative pursuits, we often face challenges, struggles, and uncertainties. But here’s the secret sauce – you have the ability to choose how you react to anything. You can either let these challenges define you, or you can rise above the noise.

I have shown my art at festivals and galleries hundreds of times, and I can tell you that there will be days when nothing happens. No sales, no conversations, no attention, and no validation. In those moments, you have to go inside and determine how you can take that experience and make it a powerful motivator to keep going. How it is all a notch on your belt and necessary for the evolution of becoming an artist who is unstoppable by circumstance.

I understand that society doesn’t often encourage us to explore and express our true feelings, the overarching emotional state that colors our interactions. Yet, it’s there, it’s palpable, and people can sense it. So, let’s be intentional about the energy we project into the world. Most importantly, the energy we project into ourselves.

Remember, we all have struggles, and that’s okay. What matters most is how you choose to face them. Self-sabotage is a real thing, and the first step to overcoming it is acknowledging it. So, let’s stand strong, confront our challenges, and convey our messages with unwavering confidence. It is in those moments of darkness that we can find our power.

I believe in you, but take these opportunities to believe in yourself. Take these opportunities to show yourself how strong you are. Take these opportunities to pick yourself back up and move forward despite the obstacles.

I adore you,
Rafi Perez

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Finding Your Unique Artist Voice

I remember the early days of my art career, grappling with the notion of creating something uniquely mine. What exactly is an artistic voice? It felt like deciphering an ancient code. You might relate – the struggle to break free from the labels of abstract, figurative, or surreal. I mistakenly believed I had to intentionally craft something entirely novel to claim my artistic voice.

But here’s the revelation: Your voice isn’t just about style or technique. It’s about what you want to achieve, how you perceive the world, and the techniques you grow to love over time. It’s a journey of self-discovery and exploration.

Experimentation became my guide, leading me to new techniques and mediums. The challenge was real – everyone advising to specialize in one thing. Yet, my heart urged me to work with different mediums. It was about discovering what resonated with me, even if it meant going against conventional wisdom.

Artists, including the greats, traverse various styles before finding their true calling. It’s a process of self-reflection and experimentation, a journey into authenticity that takes time and perseverance. Embrace the suck, push through the mistakes, and keep putting your creations out there.

External influences, societal expectations, and trends can be daunting. It’s easy to feel overshadowed by what’s popular. But remember, your authenticity is your strength. Don’t let market demands dictate your work. What feels new and innovative to you may not gain instant recognition, and that’s okay. Consistency and persistence will carve out your unique space.

Then comes the fear of judgment – a universal hurdle. The moment you start expressing your true self, judgment creeps in. Fear of criticism can lead you to conform and play it safe. But here’s the truth – standing out is liberating. Embrace the fear, push past it, and revel in your unique style.

Artistic evolution is inevitable. As you grow, your skills and perspectives evolve. Don’t be confined by the notion that you reach a pinnacle and stay there forever. Embrace the fluidity of your journey, allowing your voice to evolve with you.

Finding your artistic voice is finding confidence in creating what resonates with you. It’s about being real and authentic, creating work that is deeply meaningful to you and potentially connects with others who share your essence.

So, experiment, embrace what you love, and focus on your authenticity. Your voice is the unique melody within you, waiting to be heard. Share it with the world, fearlessly. Remember, you’re amazing, keep creating, and I’ll catch you next week. Adios!

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PODCAST 161: The Pitfalls Of Sharing Your Art

In this podcast, Klee and I discuss the pitfalls of showing your art. We also discuss some of the struggles one might go through when sharing your art with the world. To find out more about us go to http://www.rafiandklee.com


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Day Job Vs Your Art Job – Artist Podcast ARTIST PODCAST With Rafi And Klee

In this podcast, Klee and I discuss the mindset behind having a day job and your art career. We talk about struggles and solutions, and so much more. WHO ARE RAFI AND KLEE STUDIOS Curious about who we are? Visit our website and get to know us and all we do. https://rafiandklee.com/ WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT OUR COMMUNITY ON PATREON? https://rafiandklee.com/patreon/ Thank you for supporting the Artist Life Podcast with Rafi and Klee! You rock!
  1. Day Job Vs Your Art Job – Artist Podcast
  2. Coming Back To Creativity – Artist Podcast
  3. Knowing When To Push Or Step Back In Your Art Career
  4. Things We Wish Someone Told Us As Baby Artists – Artist Podcast
  5. How to Talk About Art Without Being a Snob – Bonus Artist Podcast
  6. Should I Always Be Working And Hustling As An Artist? – Artist Podcast
  7. Art Blocks And Brain Farts – Artist Podcast
  8. How To Get Creative For 2026 – Artist Podcast
  9. Less Is More Is Our New Creative Mantra – Artist Podcast
  10. Comparing Yourself Is A Crock

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Letting Go of the Glitches: A Rogue’s Reflection on Simplifying Life

Today, we embark on a journey through the intricacies of managing a self-run membership site versus the streamlined simplicity of Patreon.

A year ago, we bid farewell to Patreon in pursuit of greater control and customization for our members on our dedicated website, theroguecommunity.com. The decision seemed like the right move, given our desire to offer a plethora of exclusive content and interactions. Little did we anticipate the challenges that lay ahead.

Our artistic haven, the Rogue community, thrives on live podcasts, private streams, workshops, art challenges, exclusive videos, and more. We’ve created a vibrant space for artists to connect and grow. However, as we delved into the intricacies of managing our own site, we discovered a hidden labyrinth of technical glitches, especially with the WordPress framework and various plugins required to deliver the best membership options.

The past year became a testament to the delicate balance between managing a thriving online community and nurturing one’s artistic soul. The website, while a hub of creativity, also became a source of unexpected challenges. Every week, a new glitch emerged, demanding my attention and diverting my focus from the art studio.

As an artist, my yearly goal is to create at least 150 new works of art, a lofty ambition that drives my passion for creation. However, the demands of troubleshooting website issues left little room for artistic endeavors. Despite the behind-the-scenes chaos, the members remained blissfully unaware, shielded from the technical storms I wrestled with.

The stark realization hit me hard – in the pursuit of providing more for our community, I inadvertently sacrificed my personal artistic goals. The very essence of being an artist involves immersion in the creative process, yet I found myself entangled in the complexities of maintaining a membership website.

Last year’s goal was to simplify, a mantra that echoed through our endeavors. We streamlined processes, eliminated unnecessary complexities, and aimed for a more straightforward approach. However, the website posed a significant challenge, introducing unforeseen technical complexities that disrupted the delicate balance we sought.

The toll on my artistic output was profound. The studio, my sanctuary, became a neglected haven, visited sporadically amid the chaos of fixing glitches and ensuring the website’s seamless operation. Art, the lifeblood of my existence, took a backseat to the demands of managing a self-run platform.

The financial repercussions were undeniable. While the membership site contributed to our income, the artistic side, our primary source of revenue, suffered a decline. It became apparent that the pursuit of a self-run membership site had unintended consequences on both my artistic fulfillment and our financial stability.

As the year drew to a close, a profound reevaluation became imperative. Simplify had been our guiding principle, yet the reality begged for a more drastic shift. The decision to let go of the self-run membership site, despite the fears and uncertainties it brought, became a pivotal moment in reclaiming artistic autonomy.

The fear of returning to Patreon with a metaphorical “tail between our legs” clashed with the realization that holding onto a project that no longer served its purpose was detrimental. The members, our cherished rogues, remained at the forefront of our considerations. However, it was evident that a significant change was needed to restore the delicate balance between community management and artistic creation.

The decision to let go was not merely a surrender; it was a reclaiming of artistic agency. The emotional turmoil – fear, financial concerns, and a tinge of regret – were overshadowed by the need for a renewed focus on art.

This podcast episode serves as an open narrative, offering a glimpse into the struggles and realizations of the past year. It’s a testament to the artist’s journey, the constant negotiation between creative passion and external demands.

As we step into 2024, the mantra shifts to “simplify.” Yet, this year’s simplicity transcends the mere elimination of unnecessary complexities. It delves deeper into the notion of shedding projects that no longer serve our artistic essence.

The lesson is clear – life is short, and time is a precious currency. Focus on the things you love, and let go of the burdens that hinder your creative journey. In sharing this personal odyssey, I hope it resonates with fellow artists facing similar struggles.

Adios, wonderful rogues! May your 2024 be a year of simplicity, focus on magic, love, and everything that brings you joy. Life’s canvas awaits, and it’s time to paint with unabated passion.

Have an amazing, art-filled week, and I look forward to our next rendezvous. Until then, stay inspired!