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Today we celebrate International Artist Day, which basically means it’s one day a year we all get to collectively shrug, hold up our paint-covered hands, glue-stained fingers, clay-dusted aprons, and say, “Yeah… I did that.”
Whether you’re a painter, musician, sculptor, jewelry maker, doodler, filmmaker, or you just made something awesome out of macaroni and pride… you are an artist.
Let’s Talk About That Sneaky Little Stickman On Your Shoulder Named Imposter Syndrome
Ah yes, imposter syndrome, the voice in your head that whispers things like:
“You’re not a real artist.”
“You don’t have a degree.”
“You don’t sell enough.”
“Your art doesn’t look like their art.”
First of all, that voice is a liar. Second, it has the audacity to live rent-free in your head, and today’s as good a day as any to evict it… or muzzle it.
Creating live at an event
Speaking with other awesome artists at an event
Here’s the truth, you don’t need anyone’s permission to call yourself an artist. You don’t need a gallery, a blue checkmark, or a magical scroll that says, “Congratulations, you now officially make art.” If you create, you’re an artist. Period.
Art isn’t a club with secret handshakes. It’s a wild, messy, beautiful rebellion against the ordinary.
Playing music live at an event
Here’s Something I’ve Learned On My Artistic Journey
Stop waiting for validation. No one else gets to define your creative worth. You could hand your masterpiece to the universe and someone, somewhere will still not “get it.” That’s okay. You’re not creating for them.
Make bad art. Seriously. Ugly, weird, glorious disasters are part of the process. Every creative masterpiece is built on a mountain of what-the-hell-was-I-thinking moments.
Remind yourself: you belong here. Not because you’ve proven yourself, but because you’ve shown up. You dared to create something from nothing, and that alone makes you a badass artist.
Don’t let fear disguise itself as humility. Saying, “I’m not a real artist” might feel modest, but it’s actually self-sabotage in fancy clothes. Own it. You are an artist. Say it out loud. Scare your cat with it.
Persist. When that stick man in your head tells you to quit, make one more brushstroke. When the world feels indifferent, keep showing up. Persistence is the secret weapon of every artist who’s ever made an impact. It’s not talent, luck, or having the right connections, it’s the sheer stubbornness to keep creating no matter what.
Put yourself out there. Don’t hide your work in a drawer, a folder, or your camera roll forever. Share it. Show it. Let people experience it. Yeah, it’s scary, but so is every meaningful thing in life. The moment you put your work into the world, you claim your place as an artist, not because it’s perfect, but because you were brave enough to show up.
Showing off our books at book fair
So, on this International Artist Day, raise your paintbrush, your mic, your hammer, your camera, or your creative weapon of choice and celebrate the fact that you are doing something courageous: you are making art in a world that desperately needs it.
Congratulations on being AWESOME, from our studio to yours!
Now go make something weird, beautiful, and unapologetically you. Happy Artist Day, my fellow creative human! you’ve earned it.
Well, hello you awesome human you! I’ve got an update for you. The year started out feeling like we got shoved into a washing machine set to extra spin cycle—but I am beyond happy to report that Klee is BACK in the studio and feeling much better!
Now, we still have a doctor’s appointment next week where we’ll get the next set of instructions. It’ll either be awesome wisdom or looking at a chart while making vague humming sounds (you know what I mean). But the good news? So far, so good!
Us at the hospital for a bazillion times
The Delicate Balance (That Was Absolutely Annihilated by Life)
As you probably know, Klee and I balance a ton of creative stuff. We do art, murals, music, videos, podcasts, books, workshops, a Patreon membership, and occasionally remember to eat food. Our creative business runs like an elaborate juggling act, except the balls are on fire, someone keeps throwing in new ones, and gravity is unpredictable.
But then… BAM! A giant wrench fell out of the sky and CRUSHED the entire operation. And when I say “wrench,” I mean the kind that makes you question your entire existence while standing in the kitchen, staring blankly at a fridge that you know you opened for a reason but now have no clue why.
We’re just now picking up the pieces and putting things back together. Are we nailing it? Almost. Do we still walk into rooms and immediately forget why we’re there? Also yes. But I have faith that by next month, the balance will be restored, and I’ll stop opening my email inbox only to immediately forget why I did that in the first place.
Look at that beautiful creature at her bench!
So How Do We Balance So Much Creative Stuff?
Ohhh, I’m so glad you asked because I love talking about this! Balancing a creative life isn’t about having a perfectly organized schedule (hilarious, right?)—it’s about understanding your energy, priorities, and what actually keeps you moving forward. Here’s what helps us:
Know What Absolutely Needs to Get Done First Not everything is equally urgent. Some things need to happen now (book deadlines, mural projects, feeding ourselves), while other things can take a backseat (reorganizing the entire studio because “it feels off”). Prioritize wisely.
Make Creativity Part of Your Daily Life The trick isn’t finding time—it’s making creativity part of your routine, like brushing your teeth (but with more paint… wait, no, don’t brush your teeth with paint… the struggle is real). If you set aside even 20 minutes to do something (anything) creative daily, it keeps the momentum going.
Respect Your Brain’s Bandwidth We all want to do ALL THE THINGS. But burnout is real. If your brain is fried, don’t force creativity—step away, walk around, eat a snack, or yell dramatically into the void (trust me, it helps). Your work will be better for it.
Use the “Tiny Steps” Method If a big project feels overwhelming, break it into small, manageable steps. You don’t need to “write a book” today, but you can write 100 words. You don’t need to “paint a masterpiece,” but you can sketch an idea. Tiny steps add up faster than you think.
Celebrate the Wins (Even the Small Ones!) If we only celebrate massive accomplishments, we’ll constantly feel behind. So celebrate finishing a draft, selling a piece, creating something new, or even just showing up for your creativity. Heck, celebrate remembering why you walked into a room! It’s a win!
She’s been on fire since returning to the studio
I think that’s about it… I could be forgetting something…
Oh yeah! Have fun and don’t be all doomsday about what you didn’t get done. There is always tomorrow.
Thank You for Your Love and Support
To everyone who has sent love, well-wishes, and good vibes for Klee—we love you guys SO MUCH. Seriously. You’ve been incredible, and it means the world to us.
We’re getting back on track, slowly but surely, and we’re excited for all the creative chaos that’s coming next. Stay tuned for more art, more music, more randomness, and hopefully less walking into rooms confused.
Stay awesome, stay creative, and remember: if you forgot why you walked into a room, it was probably for snacks.
Ah, the internet. A place where dreams are built, inspiration is shared, and someone, somewhere, is always ready to tell you why everything is doomed to fail.
Case in point: today, while perusing social media, I came across an article about the new brewery coming to 100 Seneca in Oil City. This is big news! A new business, an exciting venture, a fresh reason for people to gather, enjoy, and—let’s be real—sip on something delicious. Naturally, people were thrilled. Comments flooded in with excitement about the growth, the revitalization, and the fact that, yes, cool things are happening in Oil City!
Jeff giving us a tour of 100 Seneca
But alas, like a poorly written sequel to a great movie, the naysayers arrived. I saw this happen in Pensacola while I lived there, even with it being a beautiful town on the coast of Florida. The town was picking itself back up with many people being proactive, yet the humbugs voiced their “opinion” about how it was doomed to fail. Ten years later and I’m happy to announced that Pensacola is thriving. But, there will always be someone complaining no matter what you are trying to do.
You know the type. The ones who see a new opportunity and immediately predict its failure like they have some kind of crystal ball of doom. The ones who still pine for the “good ol’ days” while conveniently forgetting that the good ol’ days weren’t always that great. The ones who assume that because something is new, it must be bad, and because something didn’t exist before, it shouldn’t exist now.
I like to call them the defeatists.
As an artist, I know these creatures well. They are the ones who take great pride in explaining to me why my creative endeavors are impractical, why artists can’t make money, and why I should probably just get a “real job.” They stand at the sidelines, loudly declaring that the game is unwinnable—while never actually playing the game themselves.
Live painting at a VERY successful art show we put on in Oil City
A Brief History of Oil City’s Evolution (for the Defeatists Who Forgot)
Oil City, as the name suggests, once thrived because of oil. In fact, it was where it all began. It boomed. It thrived. It was the place to be. And then—surprise, surprise—big petroleum companies decided they could make more money elsewhere by destroying an entire town’s livelihood, packed up, and left. What followed was the opposite of an economic boom. (An economic oomph? An economic thud? A financial faceplant? Take your pick.)
But did Oil City roll over and give up? No! The town shifted gears, launched an artist relocation program, a Mainstreet Program, and people in the community stepped up and decided to make things happen. Others just sat on their hands and complained. Yet, despite the laziness and moaning of a few, the town slowly started rebuilding with creativity, community, and small businesses at its core.
Now, we have new businesses, a thriving art community, and growing opportunities. Change isn’t coming—it’s already here. And yet, some people still refuse to see it. Instead, they clutch their metaphorical pearls and reminisce about a time long gone, all while ignoring the incredible momentum happening right under their noses.
Most of our community and the surrounding communities are hungry for awesome things and pay attention to all the cool stuff that is coming. Some live in a bubble of their own pessimism and are committed to not being a part of that growth.
Working on Library mural in Oil City
Why Do Defeatists Exist?
Honestly? Some people just don’t like change. Others can’t wrap their mind around the future because they are stuck in the past. They’d rather complain about how things used to be than take part in how things could be. Maybe it’s fear. Maybe it’s laziness. Maybe they have a secret hobby of raining on people’s parades.
Whatever the reason, their negative energy is exhausting. And if we’re not careful, it can seep into our own enthusiasm like a slow leak in a bicycle tire.
The truth is, some people just got used to complaining and focusing on everything that is going wrong. They bitch, they moan, but they don’t become proactive in their own lives. They are waiting for someone to save them and until then, they just complain. I know this sounds harsh, but it’s true. I used to be one of those people, and the world I see now is vastly different than what it used to be.
The town isn’t going to evolve on its own. It takes forward thinkers and people who focus on opportunity, something that defeatists can’t do because they are stuck in the past.
Concert At Woods And River Coffee (AWESOME COFFEE SHOP) Oil City
So, What Do We Do About Them?
1. Ignore and Proceed
The best way to deal with a naysayer is to do the exact thing they claim won’t work. Prove them wrong by succeeding. Don’t expect all of them to come around and change their mind, many will chalk it up to luck and move on to the next thing they’ll complain about. However, some may have planted the seed of hope in their perspective which is huge.
2. Don’t Engage in the Negativity Olympics
Trying to argue with a defeatist is like arguing with a pigeon—it won’t change its mind, it’ll just ignore you and look for things to peck at… and eventually, it’ll just poop on your head. Let them stew in their cynicism while you build something awesome.
3. Remember Who Actually Represents Your Community
The loudest complainer does not represent the majority. The person who left that negative comment does not speak for our town. I’ve seen firsthand how supportive this town is of new businesses and ideas. So let’s not let one keyboard warrior speak for an entire community of dreamers, doers, and creators. It’s easy to complain from the sidelines while someone else is trying to make things happen, but in the end, those people are not in the arena and they are not actually committed to the growth of the town. They want someone else to fix the problem, all while not lifting a finger to actually do anything about it.
4. Keep Creating and Supporting Growth
Klee and I are not only working on a mural design for this brewery, but we’re also involved in the Makerspace that’s coming to the same building. These are projects that will contribute to the town’s growth and creativity. That’s where our focus is—not on the people who refuse to see progress even when it’s painted on a wall right in front of them.
Concert at Curb Market in Oil City
In Conclusion: Let’s Keep Moving Forward
The reality is, change is inevitable. It’s part of life. And instead of fearing it, resisting it, or yelling at it from behind a keyboard, why not embrace it? In my travels around the country, I’ve seen a lot of towns fall victim to devastating economic change, but I have also seen towns reinvent themselves and thrive. The towns that thrived did so because their community came together and embraced the future. The towns that fell apart saw no future for themselves. Oil City has already proven that it can evolve, and it will continue to do so—whether the defeatists like it or not. Luckily, we have way more dreamers.
So, to all the dreamers, risk-takers, and forward-thinkers out there: keep building, keep creating, and keep proving the naysayers wrong. And to the defeatists? Well, enjoy your time in the past. We’ll be over here, shaping the future.
Life has a funny way of throwing curveballs. Sometimes, it’s a small bump in the road, and other times, it’s a full-on derailment. As a lot of you know, December threw a massive wrench into our world when Klee got pretty sick. And when I say a wrench, I mean one of those ridiculously oversized, cartoon-style wrenches that completely shut down the creative machine that is our life and business. To say it was a challenge would be the understatement of the century.
Honestly, it got pretty hairy there for a while. My focus became Klee—making sure she was okay, trying to keep things together, and, quite frankly, barely keeping my own head above water. When life demands that kind of energy, creativity, business, and all those other moving parts take a backseat. It’s like standing in the middle of a creative tornado and suddenly realizing you don’t even remember how to pick up a paintbrush.
A lot of hospital waiting rooms
But the good news? Klee is feeling much better! We still have a ways to go, but her smile has returned, and we’re both back in the studio.
Stepping back into that space after months of not being creative is… well, weird. Because getting back to “normal” after life has thrown you off course isn’t as simple as flipping a switch.
For anyone who has had life put their passion on pause, you know how tough it is to return. Things have piled up, been neglected, or pushed aside. And now, they all sit in front of you, staring you down like a boss battle in a video game you’ve never played. It’s overwhelming.
For me, I tried to keep things running while Klee was sick—I handled urgent things like orders and communication with collectors—but everything else? Yeah, it sat there, collecting dust and waiting for me to figure out how to be creative again. And let’s be real, I don’t just feel rusty—I feel like I have completely forgotten how to create art.
So, how do you get back into the groove when life has thrown you off your creative rhythm? Here’s what’s been working for me:
1. Start Small and Give Yourself Grace
Creativity isn’t a faucet you just turn back on. If it feels like you’ve forgotten how to do what you love, don’t panic—it’s normal. Start small. Doodle, hum, play with materials, move your body, do something low-pressure. The first thing you create after a long break will probably feel awkward, but that’s okay. Progress, not perfection.
2. Let Go of the Guilt
It’s easy to beat yourself up for all the things you “should have” done. Don’t. Life happens. It’s okay that things paused. The important part is that you’re here now, ready to begin again. Creativity doesn’t hold grudges—it just waits for you to come back.
3. Make Time, Even if It’s Messy
Your brain will try to convince you that you need the perfect setup, the perfect moment, or the perfect amount of time to dive back in. That’s a lie. Just show up, even if it’s for 10 minutes. Creativity thrives on momentum, not time shortage mentality.
4. Move Through the “This Isn’t Working” Phase
Right now, I’m working on a mural, a commission, and some new art. I am slowly (very slowly) crawling out of the “this isn’t working” stage. That stage is real. And it’s frustrating. But if you keep moving through it, even when it feels like you’re pushing through molasses, you’ll come out the other side. Trust the process, even when it feels like it’s laughing at you.
5. Do Something That Reminds You Why You Love It
Go back to your roots. Listen to music that inspires you. Look at old sketches. Read something that made you want to create in the first place. Remind yourself that you didn’t start this journey for perfection—you started it because it made you feel alive.
6. Be Patient with Yourself
Coming back to creativity after a break is like rebuilding a muscle. You wouldn’t hit the gym after months away and expect to lift the heaviest weight on day one. Creativity is the same. Give yourself the space to rebuild your confidence and strength.
7. Find the Joy in the Process
It’s easy to get caught up in productivity and deadlines, but don’t forget to enjoy the ride. Laugh at the weird mistakes. Let yourself play. The best way to rebuild your creative groove is to fall in love with creating again.
So, if you’re out there, feeling stuck, feeling rusty, feeling like you’ve lost your creative spark—know that you’re not alone. Life happens, and sometimes, it completely reroutes our plans. But creativity is patient. It waits for you. And when you’re ready, it welcomes you back with open arms (and probably a bit of frustration, but hey, that’s part of the deal).
We’re back at it, one brushstroke, one piece of jewelry, one idea at a time. And if you’re climbing out of your own creative funk, I hope you give yourself grace, patience, and permission to just start. Because once you do, that groove you thought you lost? It’ll find its way back to you.
And when it does, oh man, is it going to be awesome.
I’m excited to announce something awesome! This February, we’re running a contest, and one lucky winner will score a 30-minute video call with us—Rafi and Klee! That’s right, an entire half-hour of hanging out, talking art, life, creativity, how to break the rules, or whatever weird and wonderful things we get into. This contest runs from February 3rd 2025 and ends March 2nd 2025 at 10 PM Eastern.
CONGRATULATIONS TO ERICA!
What Can You Do with Your 30 Minutes?
Great question! Here are just a few possibilities: 🎨 Pick our brains about art, creativity, marketing, or why our cactus is drowning (you had to be there). 🎸 Ask Klee about music and jewelry-making wizardry. 🖼 Talk shop about pricing, galleries, or art business strategies. 💡 Brainstorm ideas, get feedback on your work, or just chat about life and being a rogue artist. 😂 Have a ridiculously fun and random conversation that may or may not involve ridiculous storytelling.
Whatever you want to talk about, we’re here for it.
How to Enter
Entering is simple! Just click on this link and follow instructions. Boom! You’re in. We’ll be picking one lucky winner at the end of February!
CONGRATULATIONS TO ERICA!
Why Are We Doing This?
Because we love connecting with amazing creative humans like you! Also, we like surprises, and what better surprise than an impromptu, slightly chaotic, and totally fun conversation?
So, what are you waiting for? Enter now, and maybe we’ll see your awesome face on a video call soon! 😃
Stay awesome and keep creating, Rafi & Klee
LAST MONTHS WINNERS!
Announcing the winners for last month’s Giveaway at Rafi And Klee Studios! Thank you so much to everyone for entering! Congratulations to Tom and Ricardo! You will get an email from me with instructions on how to get your calendar (please check your spam folder if you don’t see it).
Tom and Ricardo, please check your spam folder for the instructions on how to claim your prizes!
Hey, creative humans, we’re back! Kind of. As many of you know, we had to take an unexpected break from the YouTube world because Klee got pretty sick. It was a whirlwind of hospital visits, blood work, IVs—basically the whole nine yards. It got serious there for a while, and if you’ve ever been in a situation like that, you know how fast life can turn upside down.
We’re incredibly grateful to say that Klee is feeling a lot better, though the road to full recovery is still ahead. There are still medications, check-ups, and all kinds of things to keep track of, but we are back on our feet and moving forward.
This whole experience was an intense reminder of something I think a lot of us creatives struggle with: balancing life, our passions, and the unexpected challenges that get thrown our way. And for those of you out there who are caregivers while still managing an art career (or any career, really), I just want to say—you are a freaking badass.
The Reality of Being a Caregiver and an Artist
One thing that really hit me during this whole ordeal was how easy it is to neglect yourself when you’re focused on taking care of someone else. The first couple of days, I barely thought about my own needs—I was just running on adrenaline, making sure Klee had everything she needed. And let me tell you, that kind of neglect catches up to you fast.
Case in point: I had to throw away a pair of shoes because they got wet while I was rushing around the hospital, and something… unholy started growing in them. (Let’s not talk about the smell.) It was a small, gross reminder that I needed to start taking care of myself too.
So, for anyone else in this kind of situation—whether you’re taking care of a loved one, balancing a creative career, or just trying to keep your head above water—here are some things I learned the hard way.
It might sound cliché, but self-care is not optional when you’re in a high-stress situation. When you’re taking care of someone, it’s easy to put yourself on the back burner. But the truth is, if you’re not taking care of yourself, you’re not going to be much help to anyone else.
That means making sure you’re eating, getting some sleep (even if it’s just a few solid hours), and stepping away for a breather when you need it. Trust me, skipping self-care doesn’t make you a hero—it just makes everything harder in the long run.
2. Set Realistic Expectations
When this all started, I was convinced I could juggle everything—caregiving, running Rafi and Klee Studios, getting commissions done, answering emails, and basically being an unstoppable force of productivity. Spoiler alert: I was wrong.
The reality is, when life throws something big at you, you have to adjust. I had to accept that I wasn’t going to be creating a ton of new art that week. I wasn’t going to be knocking out 50 commissions. And that was okay.
If you’re in a situation where life is demanding more from you, cut yourself some slack. Set small, manageable goals, and know that it’s okay if things take longer than expected. The world won’t end if you need to slow down.
3. Simplify Your Art Practice
When my brain was completely fried from everything going on, I realized I had to simplify my approach to creativity. Normally, I juggle multiple projects at once, but that just wasn’t realistic. Instead, I focused on one thing at a time.
Instead of bouncing between 10 different projects, I picked one small creative task per day. Even if it was just sketching or organizing my studio, it gave me a sense of normalcy without overwhelming me.
If you’re in a similar spot, try breaking things down into tiny, manageable steps. Even if all you can do is one little thing each day, that’s still progress.
4. Schedule Around Downtime
Klee had a very specific schedule with medications, meals, and rest times. So, I structured my day around those moments. When she needed to rest, I used that time to check emails, sketch, or work on something small.
This was a game-changer because it meant I wasn’t trying to force work into an unpredictable schedule—I was working with the flow of the situation.
If you’re balancing caregiving with creative work, try carving out dedicated time that aligns with your responsibilities. Even short bursts of productivity can add up.
5. Accept Help (Even If You Hate Asking for It)
I’ll be honest—I am terrible at asking for help. But when people in our community reached out, offering food, support, or just checking in, it meant the world to us. And I realized something: asking for help isn’t a weakness.
If you’re in a tough situation, don’t hesitate to reach out. Whether it’s friends, family, or an online community, there are people who genuinely want to support you. Let them.
6. Watch Out for Resentment
Caregiving is hard. It takes a toll, not just physically, but emotionally too. When I was helping take care of my dad years ago, I struggled with feeling overwhelmed and frustrated.
This time around, I made sure to keep my emotions in check. I knew I didn’t want to bring negativity into the situation with Klee, so I focused on staying aware of my emotional state and communicating openly.
If you’re in a caregiving role, be mindful of your feelings. If you start feeling resentful, take a step back and find ways to relieve that pressure—whether it’s journaling, venting to a friend, or just taking a moment for yourself.
The Biggest Lesson? Be Easy on Yourself.
At the end of the day, one of the hardest but most important lessons I learned was to just be kind to myself.
I had to accept that I wasn’t going to be operating at 100% efficiency. I wasn’t going to keep up with everything the way I normally would. And that was okay.
So if you’re in a similar situation—whether you’re caring for someone, balancing life and art, or just going through a rough patch—give yourself some grace.
My new motto? “It is what it is. And good enough.”
Because sometimes, good enough is all you need.
A Huge Thank You
I want to take a moment to say thank you to everyone who sent well wishes, checked in on us, or offered support during this time. You guys are amazing, and we appreciate you more than words can say.
We’re slowly getting back into the swing of things, and I’m excited to start creating and sharing again. Klee isn’t back to 100% yet, but she’s feeling so much better—and that is the best news of all.
Also, quick announcement! We just wrapped up our January calendar giveaway, and we’re kicking off a new giveaway for February—a one-on-one video call with Klee and me! If you want to enter, head over to our website for all the details.That’s all for now. Take care of yourselves, and remember—you don’t have to do it all. ❤️
So, you’re planning a solo art show. First of all—hell yeah! This is a huge milestone. It means you’re ready to put yourself and your art out there in a big way. But let’s be honest—this can be equal parts exhilarating and terrifying.
Maybe you’re thinking: I have no idea what I’m doing! What if no one shows up? What if it’s a disaster? What if I trip over my own feet in front of everyone and become a viral internet meme?
Breathe, my creative human. I’ve done this, I survived, and I’m here to help you do the same. So let’s break it down—step by step—so you can put together a badass solo show without losing your mind.
Step 1: Find a Venue (Even If a Gallery Won’t Give You the Time of Day)
If you’re already working with a gallery, great. But if you’re not, don’t sit around waiting for someone to discover you like a Hollywood movie. You don’t need gallery representation to have a killer solo show.
Try This Instead: The Pop-Up Art Show Move
Find an empty storefront in a busy area and contact the owner. Many landlords would rather have something happening in their space instead of it sitting there collecting dust. Offer to rent it for a few days, clean it up, and make it look nice. Sometimes you can even get it for free just by promising to leave it better than you found it.
The key is thinking outside the box—coffee shops, breweries, coworking spaces, even an industrial warehouse could work. You’re not just putting on a show—you’re creating an experience.
Step 2: Curate Like a Boss
Now that you have a space, you need to fill it with work that makes people stop, stare, and say, Whoa.
What You Need:
Enough Art to Fill the Space – Aim for at least 20-40 pieces that fit a theme.
A Killer Name for Your Exhibition – Something catchy, intriguing, and meaningful.
A Showstopper Piece – One or two jaw-dropping, mind-blowing works that people can’t stop talking about. Bonus points if it’s interactive.
A Cohesive Experience – Make sure everything in your show feels intentional. You don’t want a beautiful, moody series about introspection next to a random painting of a cat wearing sunglasses. (Unless that’s the theme—then by all means, go for it.)
Step 3: Design the Space Like You’re Crafting a Story
People aren’t just coming to look at your art. They’re coming to experience it. The layout of your show should guide them on a journey—like a visual mixtape that hits all the right emotional beats.
Pro Tips:
Map It Out – Take measurements. Sketch a floor plan. (Yes, actual planning—it’s worth it.)
Create a Flow – Think about what people see first when they walk in. Where do their eyes go? Where do their feet go? Lead them like a mastermind.
Use Corners for Drama – Make people turn a corner and get hit with a moment that stops them in their tracks.
Avoid Bottlenecks – If you have a bar or snack area, make sure it’s not blocking traffic. People shouldn’t have to play an awkward game of Twister just to get a drink.
Step 4: Set the Mood (Because Art Is More Than Just What’s on the Wall)
An art show is a full-body experience. The art is the main event, but the atmosphere? That’s what makes it unforgettable.
Lighting Matters – Spotlights for hero pieces, ambient lighting for mood. Think about how light affects color and texture.
Music Sets the Vibe – Don’t just put on a random playlist—choose something that enhances the art. And no, elevator jazz is not the default.
Food & Drinks Are Your Secret Weapon – People love free snacks. Even something simple—wine, cheese, crackers—keeps people happy and lingering longer.
Make It an Experience – Could you add something interactive? A live painting demo? A guest book where people leave thoughts and doodles? A surprise performance? Anything that makes your show stand out from the usual “art-on-walls” setup.
Step 5: Get People to Show Up (Because an Empty Show Is Just You, Sitting in a Room, Staring at the Wall)
You’ve got the art. You’ve got the space. Now you need people.
Start Promoting Two Months in Advance:
Social Media Slow Burn – Don’t just blast “COME TO MY SHOW” 50 times. Instead, tease the process—show your studio, works-in-progress, close-up details, behind-the-scenes struggles. Get people invested before you hit them with the invite.
Flyers & Posters Still Work – Drop them at local coffee shops, bookstores, community centers, anywhere cool people hang out.
Press Releases = Free Publicity – Send a short, punchy press release to local newspapers, blogs, radio stations. Many will cover local events for free—but only if they know about it.
Event Listings Are Your Friend – Most cities have free event calendars online. Use them.
The One-Week Hype Bomb – In the final week, go all in with reminders, countdowns, last-minute teasers. The goal? Create excitement and urgency.
Step 6: The Show Itself (AKA: Don’t Panic and Just Enjoy It)
Don’t Stress About Sales – People hate being pressured. Just enjoy the night. If someone loves your work, they’ll ask. And if they don’t buy now, they might later—especially if the experience sticks with them.
Be Present, Not Salesy – Instead of pushing for a sale, share stories about your work. People connect with why you made something, not just what it is.
Thank People for Coming – Even if they don’t buy anything. Even if they just wandered in off the street for free wine. Gratitude goes a long way.
Have a Way for People to Stay Connected – A sign-up sheet, a QR code to your website, business cards—something so they can follow your work after the show.
Final Thoughts: Make It Fun, Make It Memorable, and Just Go for It
Look, I get it—putting on a solo show is scary. But it’s also one of the most rewarding things you can do as an artist. You’re creating an experience, sharing your work, and showing the world that you’re serious about this art thing.
So plan it well, make it an event people talk about, and most importantly—have fun with it.
Now go forth and make some art magic happen.
Have a solo show coming up? Tell me about it in the comments.
Watch The Video I created About Having A Solo Art SHow:
There’s a universal truth about being an artist: at some point, you will find yourself sitting across from a random business “expert” who has absolutely no idea what to do with you.
This isn’t to say business programs are all bad—some programs out there are fantastic for small creative businesses. But every now and then, the system spits out someone whose entire entrepreneurial philosophy is deeply allergic to creativity.
Take, for instance, my brilliant artist friends—creative powerhouses who could probably design an entire alternate universe if left alone in a room with enough coffee and a glue gun. They dabble in a variety of art—puppet-building, drawing, painting, animation, candle-making, writing, and photography. Storytelling is at the heart of everything they do, whether through short stories, photographs, puppetry, or a collection of unique candle scents. Their mission is simple: create something fun and unique to share with the world while embracing a life of adventure, travel, and boundless creativity.
Early in my career, I was told I was wasting my time and needed to get a real job.
They recently got into a really good business program that would give them access to a business coach, which sounds great in theory. A chance to learn, expand, and take their art to the next level. Except… the coach was the human embodiment of a beige PowerPoint presentation on “synergy.”
My friends, fueled by artistic chaos and brilliance, met with this coach, eager to share their vision. The response?
“Puppets are dead.”
I repeat: puppets. are. dead.
Now, I don’t know about you, but last time I checked, puppets were very much alive, thriving, and probably plotting world domination (because have you met puppeteers? They have plans). The coach then proceeded to tell them that pretty much, everything they were doing was wrong—not “needing refinement,” not “requiring a strategic tweak,” just wrong.
Puppets are not dead.
I’m sure he didn’t mean to sound like a robot programmed to discourage anyone who doesn’t sell widgets at Walmart, but let’s be real—this is a tale as old as time.
Artists and the Box That Does Not Fit
The biggest battle for artists isn’t making art. It’s dealing with people who just don’t get it. Many people love art and artists. But some have no idea what actual art is. Those people like art only in safe, pre-approved formats:
Big blockbuster movies? Love it.
Art prints at Target? Aesthetic!
Pre-made sculptures made out of recycled toaster parts with an interactive light show? What is this sorcery?
Too many business “experts” view creative careers through the lens of traditional marketing strategies. They want to fit us into their pre-cut, shrink-wrapped boxes, and if we don’t fit? Well, obviously, it’s because we’re wrong.
It’s frustrating, it’s exhausting, and it’s deeply stupid. Because here’s the thing:
Art is not meant to fit in a box.
Art is not safe.
Art is the wild, untamed, chaotic force that dares to bring something new into the world.
That’s why artists struggle when they encounter people who insist on the “proven” way of doing things. Those “proven” methods only work for things that already exist. But we’re here to create what doesn’t exist yet.
If we followed the “rules,” we wouldn’t have surrealism, street art, or the entire concept of animation (which, fun fact, was also declared “a waste of time” once).
Persistence is the only thing that shuts people up.
The Real Problem: Judgment Disguised as Advice
Let’s be honest, the hardest part of being an artist isn’t the work—it’s the constant judgment. It’s the well-meaning “concern” from people who act like we’re throwing our lives away because we don’t have a LinkedIn profile filled with business achievements.
It’s the casual dismissals. The naysaying. The patronizing conversations where someone talks to you as if you’re a wayward toddler instead of a highly skilled creative professional.
And I get it. It stings. It’s frustrating. It makes you want to throw a puppet at someone’s head just to prove that, no, they are not dead.
But I want you to remember something very important: their opinions do not define your potential.
At the end of the day, no one has walked in your shoes. No one knows what you are capable of. No one can tell you what’s possible unless you let them.
If they don’t get it? That’s their loss. There are plenty of people who will.
Artists are the kinds of people who figure their own way of doing things.
Some Advice for When the World Doesn’t Get You
Trust Your Vision – If your ideas excite you, they are worth pursuing. The greatest creative breakthroughs have always started as something that others dismissed as too weird, too different, or too impractical. Keep going.
Consider the Source – If someone gives you advice, ask yourself: does this person have experience in what I do? Do they understand the creative world? If not, take their words with a grain of salt. Some people give advice because they want to help. Others do it because they can’t handle anything outside of their own limited perspective.
Remember, Everything New is “Impossible” at First – The lightbulb was ridiculous before it worked. The internet was a joke before it changed the world. Animation was “silly” before it became a multi-billion dollar industry. Every great idea looks strange to the people who can’t see beyond what already exists.
Surround Yourself with People Who Get It – There will always be voices telling you to stop, to do something safer, to follow the well-worn path. The key is to tune them out and listen instead to the people who understand your vision—the ones who push you forward instead of holding you back.
Let Rejection Be Your Fuel – If someone tells you it can’t be done, take that as a personal challenge. The best revenge against doubters is to succeed in a way they never saw coming.
Create Anyway – At the end of the day, art is about making something because it needs to exist. Whether the world is ready for it or not, whether the business experts approve or not, whether it fits in their box or not—create anyway. Because what you make might be the very thing that changes everything.
So go forth and keep making things that don’t fit in a box. The world needs you, even if some people are too narrow-minded to see it.
I had someone reach out recently and tell me they were thinking about quitting their art because it felt too hard. That kind of message always hits me right in the gut. The last thing the world needs right now is one less creative force of nature. If you’re feeling the weight of it all, remember this: the world is already tough enough—your art is the spark that makes it brighter, more human, more alive. Don’t let the struggle dim that spark. Keep going. The world needs what only you can create.
Let’s face it—being an artist is not for the faint of heart. While others might spend their days carefully avoiding rejection and criticism, we dive in headfirst, like daredevils without a parachute. Why? Because creating art isn’t just something we do—it’s who we are. It’s how we breathe, dream, and exist. And with that level of vulnerability comes a unique kind of chaos that only creative humans can understand.
Your Art, Served with a Side of Judgment
Every painting, song, sculpture, or doodle you share feels like offering a piece of your soul to the world on a platter. And sometimes the world responds with applause. Other times? A big ol’ “Meh.” It stings, but you learn to roll with it because creating isn’t about universal approval—it’s about expression. Still, it’s hard not to take it personally when someone shrugs at the thing you stayed up until 3 a.m. pouring your heart into. Rejection? Yeah, we eat that for breakfast.
The Art of Financial Juggling
Then there’s the financial tightrope walk. Let’s not sugarcoat it—money is a touchy subject in the art world. One month, you might sell a piece for enough to pay your rent and indulge in celebratory tacos. The next month, you’re scavenging for loose change and wondering if ramen noodles are still 25 cents a pack (spoiler: they’re not).
But here’s the crazy, magical thing: in these moments, you learn to create your own sense of security. You realize that your resourcefulness is a superpower. Yes, it’s terrifying to live in a world where nothing feels guaranteed, but it’s also empowering. You’re not waiting for a paycheck from someone else; you’re building a life on your own terms. And there’s a rebellious kind of pride in that.
The “Real Job” Conundrum
Ah, society. Let’s talk about the charming way it loves to belittle creativity. “Oh, you’re an artist? That’s nice, but what’s your real job?” If I had a dollar for every time someone asked me that, I’d be lounging in a hammock on my private island right now.
Why is it so hard for people to see the value in what we do? Maybe it’s because art doesn’t always come with a dollar sign attached. Maybe it’s because the world’s definition of success is built around 9-to-5 jobs, retirement plans, and measurable productivity. But guess what? The world needs art. It needs beauty, inspiration, and the courage to dream bigger. And that’s what we bring to the table—no corporate ladder required.
Why We Keep Going
So, why do we do it? Why do we keep creating in a world that’s sometimes indifferent, often dismissive, and occasionally brutal? Because we have to. Because art is our way of processing life, connecting with others, and leaving a mark on the world.
It’s not easy, but it’s worth it. Every “Meh,” every financial freakout, and every “real job” comment just adds fuel to the fire. We create because it’s who we are, and that’s something no amount of criticism, ramen dinners, or societal doubt can take away.
So here’s to us—the brave, slightly insane souls who dare to make art in a world that doesn’t always understand it. Keep going, keep creating, and remember: your work matters, even on the days when it feels like no one is watching.
Are you feeling overwhelmed right now? Let’s talk about having too much going on. You know, that state of existence where every hour of the day feels like the finale of a fireworks display—chaotic, dazzling, and slightly terrifying.
As I sit here typing this blog, Here’s the lineup:
Book Release Next Week: Because writing a book wasn’t challenging enough, I decided to throw in finishing the audiobook by then. Sleep is for the weak, right?
Mural Design Concept: Due this week. Nothing screams “relaxation” like designing a mural that’s probably the size of a small country.
Art Commissions: Scheduling a couple more because why not pile on?
Calendar Promotion: Hoping to promote it by the end of the month so I can afford to order them. It’s like a Kickstarter, but with more stress and fewer backers.
Holiday Sale Planning: In a couple of weeks. Because the holidays aren’t hectic enough without planning a virtual sale that could rival Black Friday.
Makerspace Ribbon Cutting: Happening this week. I’m helping run it, which mostly involves nodding enthusiastically and pretending I know what’s going on.
Oh, and let’s not forget that my YouTube channel is looking more like a ghost town than a bustling community right now, and I’ve barely interacted with my online Rogue tribe of artists lately. If I were a circus, tickets would be sold out for the sheer chaos of it all.
The Million-Dollar Myth
You’d think all this “hustle” would have us swimming in cash like Scrooge McDuck. Spoiler alert: Nope. Last month’s financial hit said, “Not today!” So while we’re busy, it’s more like busy broke than busy bougie. Filthy rich? Only if we’re talking about the pile of dishes in my sink.
How Do I Handle It Without Imploding?
Here’s the thing, I actually don’t recommend this level of chaos to anyone. But, if you find yourself in a similar situation (which you probably will, because you’re awesome and ambitious), here’s how I manage to keep my head from spinning like a pottery wheel on overdrive:
1. Get Organized (Even If It Feels Like Herding Cats)
I write everything down—deadlines, to-dos, random thoughts about what I have going on like squirrel conspiracies. If it’s not on my list, it doesn’t exist. Sure, my list is terrifying, but at least I know where my terror is coming from.
2. Take Baby Steps
Rome wasn’t built in a day, and neither is an audiobook, mural, or calendar release. I focus on small, manageable chunks of work (or as I like to call them, “fa-chunks”) and tackle them one at a time. No multitasking here—it’s a trap. One chunk at a time.
3. Fa-Chunk Your Fa-Chunks
There are days when I wake up and think, Not today, life. Not today. On those days, I pick just one thing to accomplish. I Give myself a limit on how long I’m willing to work on it before I quit for the day. This gets me started and I usually get in the groove and work longer on it. It’s not about winning the whole war; it’s about winning the battle that gets me started for the day.
4. Don’t Let Overwhelm Sink Your Ship
The most dangerous thing isn’t the pile of tasks—it’s the creeping sense of oh no, I can’t do this! I kick overwhelm out of the room the moment it shows up. My enthusiasm may take a hit now and then, but I refuse to let it sink completely.
5. Deadlines Are Suggestions (Sometimes)
Here’s a little secret: I’m not afraid to extend deadlines if I absolutely have to. Sure, I try to honor my commitments, but if things get overwhelming, I remind myself that it’s better to deliver something amazing late than mediocre on time. Deadlines are flexible (within reason), and sometimes giving yourself breathing room is the kindest thing you can do.
Why I Keep Going
Despite the chaos, I love what I do. Sure, it’s like juggling flaming swords while riding a unicycle, but it’s my unicycle, and those are my flaming swords. At the end of the day, every mural, work of art, book, video, and project is a step closer to my ultimate creative dream… to make the world a little brighter.
That being said, I’m taking steps to keep this from ever happening again. By spacing out projects and keeping them more manageable, I can ensure that my circus acts remain thrilling instead of overwhelming. Live and learn, right?
So, if you’re feeling like life is one big circus right now, take a deep breath, fa-chunk your day, and don’t let the overwhelm steal your spotlight. You’ve got this. If I can do it without losing my mind, everyone can.
Now, back to my regularly scheduled chaos! 😊
What’s on your plate this week? Share your circus acts below—I promise I won’t judge!
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